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MileStone

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Re: Frontline - 19th Oct 2011 - Mufti Naeem, Shermila Farooqi & Nosheen wife of sohail Tanveer - 2nd Marriage --- Right of M

By Dr. Zakir Naik

POLYGAMY
Question:
Why is a man allowed to have more than one wife in Islam? i.e. why is polygamy allowed in Islam?
Answer:
Definition of Polygamy
1. Polygamy means a system of marriage whereby one person has more than one spouse. Polygamy can be of two types. One is polygyny where a man marries more than one woman, and the other is polyandry, where a woman marries more than one man. In Islam, limited polygyny is permitted; whereas polyandry is completely prohibited.

Now coming to the original question, why is a man allowed to have more than one wife?


2.
TheQur’an is the only religious scripture in the world that says,"marry only one".
The Qur’an is the only religious book, on the face of this earth, that contains the phrase ‘marry only one’. There is no other religious book that instructs men to have only one wife. In none of the other religious scriptures, whether it be the Vedas, the Ramayan, the Mahabharat, the Geeta, the Talmud or the Bible does one find a restriction on the number of wives. According to these scriptures one can marry as many as one wishes. It was only later, that the Hindu priests and the Christian Church restricted the number of wives to one.
Many Hindu religious personalities, according to their scriptures, had multiple wives. King Dashrat, the father of Rama, had more than one wife. Krishna had several wives.
In earlier times, Christian men were permitted as many wives as they wished, since the Bible puts no restriction on the number of wives. It was only a few centuries ago that the Church restricted the number of wives to one.
Polygyny is permitted in Judaism. According to Talmudic law, Abraham had three wives, and Solomon had hundreds of wives. The practice of polygyny continued till Rabbi GershombenYehudah (95% C.E to 1030 C.E) issued an edict against it. The Jewish Sephardic communities living in Muslim countries continued the practice till as late as 1950, until an Act of the Chief Rabbinate of Israel extended the ban on marrying more than one wife.

3. Hindus are more
polygynous than Muslims
The report of the ‘Committee of The Status of Woman in Islam’, published in 1975 mentions on page numbers 66 and 67 that the percentage of polygamous marriages between the years 1951 and 1961 was 5.06% among the Hindus and only 4.31% among the Muslims. According to Indian law only Muslim men are permitted to have more than one wife. It is illegal for any non-Muslim in India to have more than one wife. Despite it being illegal, Hindus have more multiple wives as compared to Muslims. Earlier, there was no restriction even on Hindu men with respect to the number of wives allowed. It was only in 1954, when the Hindu Marriage Act was passed that it became illegal for a Hindu to have more than one wife. At present it is the Indian Law that restricts a Hindu man from having more than one wife and not the Hindu scriptures.
Let us now analyse why Islam allows a man to have more than one wife.

4.
Qur’an permits limited polygyny
As I mentioned earlier, Qur’an is the only religious book on the face of the earth that says ‘marry only one’. The context of this phrase is the following verse from SurahNisa of the Glorious Qur’an:
"Marry women of your choice, two, or three, or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one."
[Al-Qur’an 4:3]
Before the Qur’an was revealed, there was no upper limit for polygyny and many men had scores of wives, some even hundreds. Islam put an upper limit of four wives. Islam gives a man permission to marry two, three or four women, only on the condition that he deals justly with them.
In the same chapter i.e. SurahNisa verse 129 says:
"Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women...."
[Al-Qur’an 4:129]
Therefore polygyny is not a rule but an exception. Many people are under the misconception that it is compulsory for a Muslim man to have more than one wife.
Broadly, Islam has five categories of Do’s and Don’ts:
i.Fard i.e. compulsory or obligatory
ii.Mustahab’ i.e. recommended or encouraged
iii.Mubah’ i.e. permissible or allowed
iv.Makruh’ i.e. not recommended or discouraged
v.Haraam’ i.e. prohibited or forbidden
Polygyny falls in the middle category of things that are permissible. It cannot be said that a Muslim who has two, three or four wives is a better Muslim as compared to a Muslim who has only one wife.

5. Average life span of females is more than that of males

By nature males and females are born in approximately the same ratio. A female child has more immunity than a male child. A female child can fight the germs and diseases better than the male child. For this reason, during the pediatric age itself there are more deaths among males as compared to the females.
During wars, there are more men killed as compared to women. More men die due to accidents and diseases than women. The average life span of females is more than that of males, and at any given time one finds more widows in the world than widowers.

6. India has more male population than female due to female
foeticide and infanticide
India is one of the few countries, along with the other neighbouring countries, in which the female population is less than the male population. The reason lies in the high rate of female infanticide in India, and the fact that more than one million female foetuses are aborted every year in this country, after they are identified as females. If this evil practice is stopped, then India too will have more females as compared to males.

7. World female population is more than male population

In the USA, women outnumber men by 7.8 million. New York alone has one million more females as compared to the number of males, and of the male population of New York one-third are gaysi.e sodomites. The U.S.A as a whole has more than twenty-five million gays. This means that these people do not wish to marry women. Great Britain has four million more females as compared to males. Germany has five million more females as compared to males. Russia has nine million more females than males. God alone knows how many million more females there are in the whole world as compared to males.

8. Restricting each and every man to have only one wife is not practical

Even if every man got married to one woman, there would still be more than thirty million females in U.S.A who would not be able to get husbands (considering that America has twenty five million gays). There would be more than four million females in Great Britain, 5 million females in Germany and nine million females in Russia alone who would not be able to find a husband.
Suppose my sister happens to be one of the unmarried women living in USA, or suppose your sister happens to be one of the unmarried women in USA. The only two options remaining for her are that she either marries a man who already has a wife or becomes public property. There is no other option. All those who are modest will opt for the first.
In Western society, it is common for a man to have mistresses and/or multiple extra-marital affairs, in which case, the woman leads a disgraceful, unprotected life. The same society, however, cannot accept a man having more than one wife, in which women retain their honourable, dignified position in society and lead a protected life.
Thus the only two options before a woman who cannot find a husband is to marry a married man or to become public property. Islam prefers giving women the honourable position by permitting the first option and disallowing the second.
There are several other reasons, why Islam has permitted limited polygyny, but it is mainly to protect the modesty of women.
POLYANDRY
Question:
If a man is allowed to have more than one wife, then why does Islam prohibit a woman from having more than one husband?
Answer:
A lot of people, including some Muslims, question the logic of allowing Muslim men to have more than one spouse while denying the same ‘right’ to women.
Let me first state emphatically, that the foundation of an Islamic society is justice and equity. Allah has created men and women as equal, but with different capabilities and different responsibilities. Men and women are different, physiologically and psychologically. Their roles and responsibilities are different. Men and women are equal in Islam, but not identical.
SurahNisa’ Chapter 4 verses 22 to 24 gives the list of women with who you can not marry and it is further mentions in SurahNisa’ Chapter 4 verse 24 "Also (prohibited are) women already married"
The following points enumerate the reasons why polyandry is prohibited in Islam:

1. If a man has more than one wife, the parents of the children born of such marriages can easily be identified. The father as well as the mother can easily be identified. In case of a woman marrying more than one husband, only the mother of the children born of such marriages will be identified and not the father. Islam gives tremendous importance to the identification of
both parents, mother and father. Psychologists tell us that children who do not know their parents, especially their father undergo severe mental trauma and disturbances. Often they have an unhappy childhood. It is for this reason that the children of prostitutes do not have a healthy childhood. If a child born of such wedlock is admitted in school, and when the mother is asked the name of the father, she would have to give two or more names! I am aware that recent advances in science have made it possible for both the mother and father to be identified with the help of genetic testing. Thus this point which was applicable for the past may not be applicable for the present.

2. Man is more polygamous by nature as compared to a woman.


3. Biologically, it is easier for a man to perform his duties as a husband despite having several wives. A woman, in a similar position, having several husbands, will not find it possible to perform her duties as a wife. A woman undergoes several psychological and behavioral changes due to different phases of the menstrual cycle.


4. A woman who has more than one husband will have several sexual partners at the same time and has a high chance of acquiring venereal or sexually transmitted diseases which can also be transmitted back to her husband even if all of them have no extra-marital sex. This is not the case in a man having more than one wife, and none of them having extra-marital sex.


The above reasons are those that one can easily identify. There are probably many more reasons why Allah, in His Infinite Wisdom, has prohibited polyandry.
 

adnan_younus

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
Re: Frontline - 19th Oct 2011 - Mufti Naeem, Shermila Farooqi & Nosheen wife of sohail Tanveer - 2nd Marriage --- Right of M

mufti sb pagla gayein hein.. kyun behus ker rahe hein.. ek jumla bolna chahiye uunko...
"maire mutabiq islam mein aisa hai" manna na manna aap ten aurtoan ka kaam hai... akhirat mein pata chaleyga ke mein haq pe tha ya aap... simplzzzz.... ab sharmila farooqui se isla per behus... phuffff
 

Aamir Malik

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patriot

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Re: Frontline - 19th Oct 2011 - Mufti Naeem, Shermila Farooqi & Nosheen wife of sohail Tanveer - 2nd Marriage --- Right of M

Mufti e jahliyat.

YA ALLAH SAVE US FROM THESE BRAINLESS MUFTIS AND MULLAHS.
 

Unicorn

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Re: Frontline - 19th Oct 2011 - Mufti Naeem, Shermila Farooqi & Nosheen wife of sohail Tanveer - 2nd Marriage --- Right of M

Now that I seen the program, listened to Mr. Naik and Mr. Israr Ahmed, its about Tanvir who decided to do social service for the country too keep female and male balance(clap). Tanvir the cricketer and now a social worker.

Another prime minister also did a social service when he married a youg girl during out of the country visit without telling the wife. Pakistan have a lot of politicians and celebrities doing great social work and end up getting a bad rap from these Jahil women. Thats all part of making sacrifice.

Abhi koe aur mie ka laal udhayga aur is aurat se bhi pehli bivi ko bina batia doosari shadi is sai kar layga. its all social work.
 
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patriot

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Re: Frontline - 19th Oct 2011 - Mufti Naeem, Shermila Farooqi & Nosheen wife of sohail Tanveer - 2nd Marriage --- Right of M

ميں بھي حاضر تھا وہاں ، ضبط سخن کر نہ سکا
حق سے جب حضرت ملا کو ملا حکم بہشت
عرض کي ميں نے ، الہي! مري تقصير معاف
خوش نہ آئيں گے اسے حور و شراب و لب کشت
نہيں فردوس مقام جدل و قال و اقول .
بحث و تکرار اس اللہ کے بندے کي سرشت
ہے بد آموزي اقوام و ملل کام اس کا

اور جنت ميں نہ مسجد ، نہ کليسا ، نہ کنشت

When Almighty God ordained the Mullah to paradise,
I was also present there, and could not hold my tongue.
Submissively I said Forgive me,
The Mullah will feel ill at ease in the paradise,
The houri, the wine and the verdant fields will not attract him.
Hair -Splitting and quibbling are in the nature of the man.
And paradise is not the place to bicker, argue and quarrel.
 
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atensari

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Re: Frontline - 19th Oct 2011 - Mufti Naeem, Shermila Farooqi & Nosheen wife of sohail Tanveer - 2nd Marriage --- Right of M

blame the hindu again. lol. in pakistan we are what jews are around the world. whatever happens hinduon ke sar pe daal do.

Don't blame yourself, he is referring to 1000 year pre-partition Muslim-Hindu relations. Although natives accepted Islam they could not get rid of Hindu social practices i.e. Jahaaz, Barat, Teesar, Daswan and more are Hindu practices.
 

jujuju

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Re: Frontline - 19th Oct 2011 - Mufti Naeem, Shermila Farooqi & Nosheen wife of sohail Tanveer - 2nd Marriage --- Right of M

i am not blaming myself, he is. anyways, its surprising that the blame the hindu argument comes up only when you have to explain how some bad social/economic/political practise comes up. aaj tak kisi acchi baat ke liye ye nahin kehte suna hun ki ye hinduon ke influecne se hua hai. maybe what you and he mean is that almost all hindu influence is bad influnece.
Don't blame yourself, he is referring to 1000 year pre-partition Muslim-Hindu relations. Although natives accepted Islam they could not get rid of Hindu social practices i.e. Jahaaz, Barat, Teesar, Daswan and more are Hindu practices.
 

atensari

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Re: Frontline - 19th Oct 2011 - Mufti Naeem, Shermila Farooqi & Nosheen wife of sohail Tanveer - 2nd Marriage --- Right of M

i am not blaming myself, he is. anyways, its surprising that the blame the hindu argument comes up only when you have to explain how some bad social/economic/political practise comes up. aaj tak kisi acchi baat ke liye ye nahin kehte suna hun ki ye hinduon ke influecne se hua hai. maybe what you and he mean is that almost all hindu influence is bad influnece.

One thing good for Hindus, Pakistan would not have came in existence with out their help.
 

gazoomartian

Prime Minister (20k+ posts)
Re: Frontline - 19th Oct 2011 - Mufti Naeem, Shermila Farooqi & Nosheen wife of sohail Tanveer - 2nd Marriage --- Right of M

Ullu ka patha host.

seems like this debate has been raised by the secular and sponsored by them. Its an unfair debate. Mufti Sharmila has big tongue and knows Qur'an o sunnah inside out and mufti naeem is total jahil. la'aanat ho Mufti sharmila par aur us kambakht aurat per bhi jis ney 'love ' marriage.

Who know the child could be illegitimate too which she is not revealing.....may be she got pregnant that forced them to marry.

So much for love marriage. They are now full of love. Yeh kambakht Mufti sharmila probably doesn't even know how toread ayat-al-kursi.

An awara aurat Sherry rehman, and Mufti sharmila have started giving fatwah..... qayamat waqaee qareeb hai

al-aman al-hafeez
 
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gazoomartian

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Re: Frontline - 19th Oct 2011 - Mufti Naeem, Shermila Farooqi & Nosheen wife of sohail Tanveer - 2nd Marriage --- Right of M

i am not blaming myself, he is. anyways, its surprising that the blame the hindu argument comes up only when you have to explain how some bad social/economic/political practise comes up. aaj tak kisi acchi baat ke liye ye nahin kehte suna hun ki ye hinduon ke influecne se hua hai. maybe what you and he mean is that almost all hindu influence is bad influnece.


jewjewjew dear. dont be so hard on yerself. Not all influence from India is bad sweetie.

All your influences have been mixture of good n bad but ONE influence has been overwhelmingly bad and that was mistreating of Muslims by Hindus of India

And because of that particular ONE influence, Pakistan came into existence. So you should feel proud that you helped Muslims of India form a country. All shabashi goes to you Hindus and we are forever grateful for that. (clap)
 

jujuju

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Re: Frontline - 19th Oct 2011 - Mufti Naeem, Shermila Farooqi & Nosheen wife of sohail Tanveer - 2nd Marriage --- Right of M

ohh, thanks for being so kind. i had nothing to do with partition. i was born in the eighties, so thanks but no thanks. anyways i abhor this silly self-identification as being hindu or muslim. ye mere fitrat me nahin hai. so i dont mind if you or israr or whoever blames hindus for everything and passes off any prejudice as fact. thats your problem, not mine.
jewjewjew dear. dont be so hard on yerself. Not all influence from India is bad sweetie.

All your influences have been mixture of good n bad but ONE influence has been overwhelmingly bad and that was mistreating of Muslims by Hindus of India

And because of that particular ONE influence, Pakistan came into existence. So you should feel proud that you helped Muslims of India form a country. All shabashi goes to you Hindus and we are forever grateful for that. (clap)
 

gazoomartian

Prime Minister (20k+ posts)
Re: Frontline - 19th Oct 2011 - Mufti Naeem, Shermila Farooqi & Nosheen wife of sohail Tanveer - 2nd Marriage --- Right of M

ohh, thanks for being so kind..

no need to thank. Thats the kinda guy I are - always kind n nice to females (bigsmile)
 

jujuju

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Re: Frontline - 19th Oct 2011 - Mufti Naeem, Shermila Farooqi & Nosheen wife of sohail Tanveer - 2nd Marriage --- Right of M

i know its hard to judge people sex over the internet. but rest assured, you are making a giant mistake. unless....it is some odd sexual fetish for you.

the last time i was mistaken for a female on the internet was when i was fooling a friend over yahoo chat. it didnt end well for him. at 6'2", and 92 kgs of gravitational mass, i am quite an odd female arent I.
no need to thank. Thats the kinda guy I are - always kind n nice to females (bigsmile)
 
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gazoomartian

Prime Minister (20k+ posts)
Re: Frontline - 19th Oct 2011 - Mufti Naeem, Shermila Farooqi & Nosheen wife of sohail Tanveer - 2nd Marriage --- Right of M

i know its hard to judge people sex over the internet. but rest assured, you are making a giant mistake. unless....it is some odd sexual fetish for you.

the last time i was mistaken for a female on the internet was when i was fooling a friend over yahoo chat. it didnt end well for him. at 6'2", and 92 kgs of gravitational mass, i am quite an odd female arent I.


don't worry jujuju

I love mouchon wali aurtein too [hilar][hilar]
 

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