You are forgetting a lot.
India is our biggest enemy
hundred and thousands of Muslims before 1947
millions at 1947
taking over of Kashmir, Haiderabad dakkan etc
stopping our water and creating a drought in Pakistan which led Ayub Khan to Sinh taas, taking our water subsequently
1971, how can you forgot that; a lot of the blame falls on our army but it was India that instigated the movement.
Siachin, Kargil
killing more than a hundred thousand kashmiris
training MQM military wing and other terrorists organisations for their pseudo/proxy war in Pakistan etc etc etc
India has never accepted Pakistan as a sovereign state and its attitude toward the rest of its neighbors is the same.
Taliban were and are still not enemies of Pakistan, they did not started the war with us, it was us who started warring with them. The figure 40,000 if correct should not be attributed to them solely, our army and intelligence agencies share the greater role in this figure.