Kashmiris do want to live with us. The impression that Kashmiris 'do not want to live with Pakistan' has been carefully created by India to offset the separation movement Kashmiris. Kashmir and Pakistan are two inseparable variables of the same equation.
But Kashmir IS separable from India as it is a distinct society and therefore can not be merged in India. On the flip side, Kashmir and Pakistan have the same religion, same rasool pbuh, same holy Book, same culture and same Allah that we pray to. Neither of the two have 500 Gods. Therefore Kashmir has more similarities with Pakistan and hence have reason to emerge.
If, for any reason, Kashmir were to merge with India, it will be good for neither, Kashmir or India. The atrocities of Indian soldiers will continue against Muslims, and there will never be any peace in the region. Don't forget what happened in Gujrat, 1000's of Muslim burnt alive, and the Indian justice system stood idle by.
Therefore PM Singh should give up on hypocrisy and call back the troops if he really wants peace in the region.