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[Waseem]

Buree baat GeoG. Dil tor diya aap nay Waseem bhai ka.

He stated
When parents have no choice but to accept your's. (bigsmile)

If parents do not agree to a proposal, this will happen at the age 38
so long way to go for Waseem with this approach...

I was just kidding with Adeel, mera aisay koe erada nahi hay. ;)

 

[canadian]

GeoG:

It is customary for the thread starter to give his opinion about the issue. So, I (we) are all ears.

Small minds talk about people,
Medium men talk about things,
Great minds talk about ideas,

 

[abbasiali]

Now I understand the saying
There is always a woman behind a successful man...

Strange subject, but interesting, well I dare to jump into this boat, "MARRIAGE" either arranged or un-arranged (lol) in both cases, men have to suffer. those who are responsible, I alluded towards age factor, In early period of marriage, in both above mentioned cases, men try to take over situation and tried to pretend as hero "SUPERMEN" who dare to face pragmatic challenges, apart from getting screwed up from both sides(Sweet wife/dear parents) keep pretending as "IRON MEN" with smiling face. after a short while, smiling face start changing into face with wrinkled forehead and look for someone, who either share the problem or take full responsibility of his living circumstances, and all this happened because he did take women as granted, wife along with mother, after finding next to impossible, to keep balance in these relations, poor fellow all of a sudden become "GEEDAR" from "SUPERMAN" this is the actual turning point, where all men become same, poor creature dragged so badly toward mental stress. Nutshell in both cases women played major role to drive men crazy from every thing and they find suitable to stay away from home.

Though religiosity ordained to go for marriage but we as senior apostle to our fellows to have 100 thoughts before becoming crusader and start this crusade. because this could be the only time when one could survive, otherwise whole life relevance as torment with no abode, creeping with despair.

So far I haven't found any one who could be claimant of solver of this riddle, which we all know as women, and respect from heart.(no other choice as well)

For me poor men are the most innocent creature who first instigate for this crusade and once grasped then force to abide this relation in the name of hollow rituals, and kept on this dungeon in bowing position, However I pay great tribute to men who (in most cases) at this frantic point, with ablaze heart,, uttered himself as quell. present as beautiful embellished life.

 

[canadian]

Strange subject, but interesting, well I dare to jump into this boat, "MARRIAGE" either arranged or un-arranged (lol) in both cases, men have to suffer. those who are responsible, I alluded towards age factor, In early period of marriage, in both above mentioned cases, men try to take over situation and tried to pretend as hero "SUPERMEN" who dare to face pragmatic challenges, apart from getting screwed up from both sides(Sweet wife/dear parents) keep pretending as "IRON MEN" with smiling face. after a short while, smiling face start changing into face with wrinkled forehead and look for someone, who either share the problem or take full responsibility of his living circumstances, and all this happened because he did take women as granted, wife along with mother, after finding next to impossible, to keep balance in these relations, poor fellow all of a sudden become "GEEDAR" from "SUPERMAN" this is the actual turning point, where all men become same, poor creature dragged so badly toward mental stress. Nutshell in both cases women played major role to drive men crazy from every thing and they find suitable to stay away from home.

Though religiosity ordained to go for marriage but we as senior apostle to our fellows to have 100 thoughts before becoming crusader and start this crusade. because this could be the only time when one could survive, otherwise whole life relevance as torment with no abode, creeping with despair.

So far I haven't found any one who could be claimant of solver of this riddle, which we all know as women, and respect from heart.(no other choice as well)

For me poor men are the most innocent creature who first instigate for this crusade and once grasped then force to abide this relation in the name of hollow rituals, and kept on this dungeon in bowing position, However I pay great tribute to men who (in most cases) at this frantic point, with ablaze heart,, uttered himself as quell. present as beautiful embellished life.

Thanks.Very well said.

 

[abbasiali]

Thanks.Very well said.

If you are "MARRIED" then welcome soooooooooooooooo very very much,

and if not,

Then,

Give proper attention to my post..............lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

 

[rajakhanmd]

Strange subject, but interesting, well I dare to jump into this boat, "MARRIAGE" either arranged or un-arranged (lol) in both cases, men have to suffer. those who are responsible, I alluded towards age factor, In early period of marriage, in both above mentioned cases, men try to take over situation and tried to pretend as hero "SUPERMEN" who dare to face pragmatic challenges, apart from getting screwed up from both sides(Sweet wife/dear parents) keep pretending as "IRON MEN" with smiling face. after a short while, smiling face start changing into face with wrinkled forehead and look for someone, who either share the problem or take full responsibility of his living circumstances, and all this happened because he did take women as granted, wife along with mother, after finding next to impossible, to keep balance in these relations, poor fellow all of a sudden become "GEEDAR" from "SUPERMAN" this is the actual turning point, where all men become same, poor creature dragged so badly toward mental stress. Nutshell in both cases women played major role to drive men crazy from every thing and they find suitable to stay away from home.

Though religiosity ordained to go for marriage but we as senior apostle to our fellows to have 100 thoughts before becoming crusader and start this crusade. because this could be the only time when one could survive, otherwise whole life relevance as torment with no abode, creeping with despair.

So far I haven't found any one who could be claimant of solver of this riddle, which we all know as women, and respect from heart.(no other choice as well)

For me poor men are the most innocent creature who first instigate for this crusade and once grasped then force to abide this relation in the name of hollow rituals, and kept on this dungeon in bowing position, However I pay great tribute to men who (in most cases) at this frantic point, with ablaze heart,, uttered himself as quell. present as beautiful embellished life.

Wow. Abbasi bhai, every word reflects a ton of experience. Khei.n aap es derdnaak tajerbay say do baar to nhei.n guzray. ;)

 

[Waseem]

Strange subject, but interesting, well I dare to jump into this boat, "MARRIAGE" either arranged or un-arranged (lol) in both cases, men have to suffer. those who are responsible, I alluded towards age factor, In early period of marriage, in both above mentioned cases, men try to take over situation and tried to pretend as hero "SUPERMEN" who dare to face pragmatic challenges, apart from getting screwed up from both sides(Sweet wife/dear parents) keep pretending as "IRON MEN" with smiling face. after a short while, smiling face start changing into face with wrinkled forehead and look for someone, who either share the problem or take full responsibility of his living circumstances, and all this happened because he did take women as granted, wife along with mother, after finding next to impossible, to keep balance in these relations, poor fellow all of a sudden become "GEEDAR" from "SUPERMAN" this is the actual turning point, where all men become same, poor creature dragged so badly toward mental stress. Nutshell in both cases women played major role to drive men crazy from every thing and they find suitable to stay away from home.

Though religiosity ordained to go for marriage but we as senior apostle to our fellows to have 100 thoughts before becoming crusader and start this crusade. because this could be the only time when one could survive, otherwise whole life relevance as torment with no abode, creeping with despair.

So far I haven't found any one who could be claimant of solver of this riddle, which we all know as women, and respect from heart.(no other choice as well)

For me poor men are the most innocent creature who first instigate for this crusade and once grasped then force to abide this relation in the name of hollow rituals, and kept on this dungeon in bowing position, However I pay great tribute to men who (in most cases) at this frantic point, with ablaze heart,, uttered himself as quell. present as beautiful embellished life.

bhai I would dare to differ with you, don't you think its one sided story I mean you can not ignore the sacrifices of a woman to make everyone happy, husband , children, in-laws her own family. And we all know how much a common woman is dependent on a man.

 

[abbasiali]

bhai I would dare to differ with you, don't you think its one sided story I mean you can not ignore the sacrifices of a woman to make everyone happy, husband , children, in-laws her own family. And we all know how much a common woman is dependent on a man.

Meri jaan bachelor ho is liyey deffer kar saktey ho, bus is post ko print kar key rakh lo, kiyunkey ek din zarour aaeyey ga jub in alfaaz ko dil kalejey sey lugaa kar yaad karo gey. normally yeh yeh stage no 2 hota hai jaisa main ney ooper likha ahai.

BTW koi ek misaal bhi deideitey to aur bhi acha lugta, kum uz kum ek jhoota to aaj ki tareekh main puta chul jata.................lolzzzzzzzzzzzz

 

[abbasiali]

Wow. Abbasi bhai, every word reflects a ton of experience. Khei.n aap es derdnaak tajerbay say do baar to nhei.n guzray. ;)

Piyarey raja bhai, ek qatal ki saza kiya hoti hai, aur dus qatal ki saza kiya hoti, is ka to aap ko malum hi hai,

Isi tarha ek shadi karney waley key saath sub ki humdardi hoti, magar jub woh doosri karta hai to sub us per sey haath utha leitey hain, kiyunkey khudkashi karney waley ka koi saath nahi deita....main pehley waley group sey taaluq rakhta houn, baishaak aap ko merey alfaaz main char ka dard mahsous hota hoga, maga baat wohi hai..........ek ho ya do ya teen......dard to dard hai, aur usey akeley hi jhailna hota hai..................is dard ki koi definition hoti..yeh sur bus bajta rahta hai aur beawaz rahta hai.



is liyey meri post ko buhut sanjeedgi key saath parhna aur BH ko bhi advise kar deina.......door key dhol suhaney....khobsoorat alfaaz key jaal mut phasna.......lolzzzzzzzzzzz

 

[rajakhanmd]

baishaak aap ko merey alfaaz main char ka dard mahsous hota hoga, maga baat wohi hai..........ek ho ya do ya teen......dard to dard hai, aur usey akeley hi jhailna hota hai..................is dard ki koi definition hoti..yeh sur bus bajta rahta hai aur beawaz rahta hai.
is liyey meri post ko buhut sanjeedgi key saath parhna aur BH ko bhi advise kar deina.......door key dhol suhaney....khobsoorat alfaaz key jaal mut phasna.......lolzzzzzzzzzzz

Cool, thanks.

BH bro ''tasdeeq bil qelb'' ke stage cross ker chukey hain aur sirf ''iqrar bil lisaan'' kerna baqi hai. Main un jaisey aalim fazil sheksiat ko kia mushwarra doo.n ga. Woh es thread to follow kertey rehtay hain, aap ke post yakeenun un ke nezroo.n say guzrey gee.

 

[Waseem]

Meri jaan bachelor ho is liyey deffer kar saktey ho, bus is post ko print kar key rakh lo, kiyunkey ek din zarour aaeyey ga jub in alfaaz ko dil kalejey sey lugaa kar yaad karo gey. normally yeh yeh stage no 2 hota hai jaisa main ney ooper likha ahai.

BTW koi ek misaal bhi deideitey to aur bhi acha lugta, kum uz kum ek jhoota to aaj ki tareekh main puta chul jata.................lolzzzzzzzzzzzz

Hahaha bhai mujhay pata tha ke mujhay bachelor honay ka tana zaroor mila ga (cry). Aur bhai yeah tou aap mujhay bad'dua de rahay hain. Aap baray mai mujay aap

ke aur aap jasay dosray dhuki dil buzur'goun ke dua'ain chahe'yain, keyoun ke suna hay ke Allah dhuki dil logon ke jaldi sunta hay. :)

Aur bhai astagfirullah mera maqsad kisi ko jhoota sabit kerna nahi lakin misalyen tou aap ko ess sociey mai bashumar mil gayen ge. aap sirf ess se he andaza laga le

ke aik bachi apni padiash se le ker apnay burhapay ke umer tuk kitni zeyada apni ghar ke mardoun pe dependent hotey hay. aur kitni bar uss ke zindagi ke faisaly hum

loag ker rahay hotay hain. Mai aap ko ager wise aik aik misal deta houn

01. Jb hum larakay nojawani ke umer mai bahir ground mai khail rahay hotay hain tou waldain ussi umer ke bachiyoun ke ghar ke under chupa rahay hotay hain.

02. Phir shaadi ke badth larki apnay relatives ke pass bhi apni marzi se nahi ja sakti, uss ko apnay husband aur in laws ke ijaazt ke zaroort hoty hay.

03. Jub bachay baray ho jatay hain tou husband ke sath bachoun ke marzi ke nnechay chalna perta hay.

Ab enn sub ke badth ager koe aurat apnay husband ke sath thora roola daal latey hain tou keya farq perta hay etni haaq tou uss ko hay he na?

 

[GeoG]

Piyarey raja bhai, ek qatal ki saza kiya hoti hai, aur dus qatal ki saza kiya hoti, is ka to aap ko malum hi hai,

Isi tarha ek shadi karney waley key saath sub ki humdardi hoti, magar jub woh doosri karta hai to sub us per sey haath utha leitey hain, kiyunkey khudkashi karney waley ka koi saath nahi deita....main pehley waley group sey taaluq rakhta houn, baishaak aap ko merey alfaaz main char ka dard mahsous hota hoga, maga baat wohi hai..........ek ho ya do ya teen......dard to dard hai, aur usey akeley hi jhailna hota hai..................is dard ki koi definition hoti..yeh sur bus bajta rahta hai aur beawaz rahta hai.



is liyey meri post ko buhut sanjeedgi key saath parhna aur BH ko bhi advise kar deina.......door key dhol suhaney....khobsoorat alfaaz key jaal mut phasna.......lolzzzzzzzzzzz

Abbasi Bhai, Good to read you on this thread.
I subscribe to a different school of thought,
one which believes Keh Doosri Shadi Aap Ki Janat Ki Kunji Hai,
Kyunkeh Jahanam Tou Aap Nay Dunya Main Hi Daikh Li..

On a serious note, Kyun Bachon Ko Darra Rahay Ho Bhai
Itni Mushkal Say Raja Aur Waseem Neem Razamand Huay Thay
Aap Ki 2 post Ka Asar Zaail Karnay Kay Liyay Ab 50 Post Aur Dakkar Hoon Gi...

 

[Waseem]

Abbasi Bhai, Good to read you on this thread.
I subscribe to a different school of thought,
one which believes Keh Doosri Shadi Aap Ki Janat Ki Kunji Hai,
Kyunkeh Jahanam Tou Aap Nay Dunya Main Hi Daikh Li..

On a serious note, Kyun Bachon Ko Darra Rahay Ho Bhai
Itni Mushkal Say Raja Aur Waseem Neem Razamand Huay Thay
Aap Ki 2 post Ka Asar Zaail Karnay Kay Liyay Ab 50 Post Aur Dakkar Hoon Gi...

Bhai koe kitna he dara le , yah aise cheez hay jis nai insaan zaroor phansta hay.
Aur mai aur raja inkari kub thay
Hum tou sirf right time aur right match ka wait ker rahay hain. :)

 

[abbasiali]

Bhai koe kitna he dara le , yah aise cheez hay jis nai insaan zaroor phansta hay.
Aur mai aur raja inkari kub thay
Hum tou sirf right time aur right match ka wait ker rahay hain. :)

kitney golden words hain, "RIGHT TIME & RIGHT MATCH" Yeh right right match ka bhanda to sub sey pehley phoot ta hai, us key baad (cry)(cry):smashfreakB::smashfreakB::swordfight::133::dunno::banghead:

 

[abbasiali]

Abbasi Bhai, Good to read you on this thread.
I subscribe to a different school of thought,
one which believes Keh Doosri Shadi Aap Ki Janat Ki Kunji Hai,
Kyunkeh Jahanam Tou Aap Nay Dunya Main Hi Daikh Li..

On a serious note, Kyun Bachon Ko Darra Rahay Ho Bhai
Itni Mushkal Say Raja Aur Waseem Neem Razamand Huay Thay
Aap Ki 2 post Ka Asar Zaail Karnay Kay Liyay Ab 50 Post Aur Dakkar Hoon Gi...

Bus dost patta nahi kiyun apney aap per qaboo nahi rahta, atleast ab sub gawah to hain, key hum ney koi kasar nahi chodi thi, in piyarey or masoumoun ko bachaney main.

 

[abbasiali]

Hahaha bhai mujhay pata tha ke mujhay bachelor honay ka tana zaroor mila ga (cry). Aur bhai yeah tou aap mujhay bad'dua de rahay hain. Aap baray mai mujay aap

ke aur aap jasay dosray dhuki dil buzur'goun ke dua'ain chahe'yain, keyoun ke suna hay ke Allah dhuki dil logon ke jaldi sunta hay. :)

Aur bhai astagfirullah mera maqsad kisi ko jhoota sabit kerna nahi lakin misalyen tou aap ko ess sociey mai bashumar mil gayen ge. aap sirf ess se he andaza laga le

ke aik bachi apni padiash se le ker apnay burhapay ke umer tuk kitni zeyada apni ghar ke mardoun pe dependent hotey hay. aur kitni bar uss ke zindagi ke faisaly hum

loag ker rahay hotay hain. Mai aap ko ager wise aik aik misal deta houn

01. Jb hum larakay nojawani ke umer mai bahir ground mai khail rahay hotay hain tou waldain ussi umer ke bachiyoun ke ghar ke under chupa rahay hotay hain.

02. Phir shaadi ke badth larki apnay relatives ke pass bhi apni marzi se nahi ja sakti, uss ko apnay husband aur in laws ke ijaazt ke zaroort hoty hay.

03. Jub bachay baray ho jatay hain tou husband ke sath bachoun ke marzi ke nnechay chalna perta hay.

Ab enn sub ke badth ager koe aurat apnay husband ke sath thora roola daal latey hain tou keya farq perta hay etni haaq tou uss ko hay he na?

meri jaan main isi mazloum qaum key barey main baat kar raha houn, jis ki aap ney itni dard mandana wakalat ki hai, bus zara thora sa waqt ka intezar kijiyey, ek to juld hi hansi khushi shaheed honey jaa raha hai. ghaliban july main, us key baad chey mahiney sirf, ya to cheekhoun ki awazein sunai dein gi, warna bharam ki maar khayey gaa.........lolzzzzzzz

 

[I_hate_Liars]

Strange subject, but interesting, well I dare to jump into this boat, "MARRIAGE" either arranged or un-arranged (lol) in both cases, men have to suffer. those who are responsible, I alluded towards age factor, In early period of marriage, in both above mentioned cases, men try to take over situation and tried to pretend as hero "SUPERMEN" who dare to face pragmatic challenges, apart from getting screwed up from both sides(Sweet wife/dear parents) keep pretending as "IRON MEN" with smiling face. after a short while, smiling face start changing into face with wrinkled forehead and look for someone, who either share the problem or take full responsibility of his living circumstances, and all this happened because he did take women as granted, wife along with mother, after finding next to impossible, to keep balance in these relations, poor fellow all of a sudden become "GEEDAR" from "SUPERMAN" this is the actual turning point, where all men become same, poor creature dragged so badly toward mental stress. Nutshell in both cases women played major role to drive men crazy from every thing and they find suitable to stay away from home.

Though religiosity ordained to go for marriage but we as senior apostle to our fellows to have 100 thoughts before becoming crusader and start this crusade. because this could be the only time when one could survive, otherwise whole life relevance as torment with no abode, creeping with despair.

So far I haven't found any one who could be claimant of solver of this riddle, which we all know as women, and respect from heart.(no other choice as well)

For me poor men are the most innocent creature who first instigate for this crusade and once grasped then force to abide this relation in the name of hollow rituals, and kept on this dungeon in bowing position, However I pay great tribute to men who (in most cases) at this frantic point, with ablaze heart,, uttered himself as quell. present as beautiful embellished life.

Very well said chief sahab, is this your "GUEST APPEARNCE" in this thread, I believe this thread has been run and taken care by singles.

 

[abbasiali]

Very well said chief sahab, is this your "GUEST APPEARNCE" in this thread, I believe this thread has been run and taken care by singles.

Probably yes, I just stop by to alert, I have done my job.....lolzzzz.oldies are not welcomed by youngsters....lolzzzz..rest will be taken care by Canadian, Waseem and all participants.

 

[Wadaich]

doesnt matter, homework huwa wa ho ya na huwa wa ho.

Men always.... mess up in the end !

Now I understand the saying
There is always a woman behind a successful man...

And there are always more than one women behind an unsuccessful man.....(yapping)....... (Amjad Islam Amjad)

 

[Wadaich]

Very well said chief sahab, is this your "GUEST APPEARNCE" in this thread, I believe this thread has been run and taken care by singles.

To set the record straight you need to look back in the history:

Definition in Siastpikedia:

"This thread was started by a chronic/die hard married young man known as "canadian" to take care of and mentor the young unmarried people with unfulfilled desires of marriage."

Later on other great married brains joined/volunteered for this noble cause to dispel the 'fears of the unknown' i.e "marriage" from the minds of unmarried people by innovative psychological treatment and training, so that they are trapped into marriage and share the same fate which the majority is facing.(serious)