I'm bored

[GeoG]

oey Nhein jee, marriage kay chakker say baher nikal aaein. Sare zindage itna kuch nhein sunna perra jitna aik huftey main idher suna hai. Itna fertile mind hai aapka, koi aur idea dain.....

that is the whole idea that lets not be Rjaa, Waseem specific
But general pros and cons of arranged marriage visa v pyar muhabat wala waya

 

[GeoG]

Yar , u took off my cloths so quickly....I was just joking .... This is the sense everyone has.
I do not have any girl friend ,ever,, nor any links , nor relations....but I have the feeling of attachments,respect for the girls, and thinking thatt he wrong should not be done. Once a girl talked to me , in F Sc and I told her not to have bad feelings , look at your perents. My freinds used to tease me with that.

later on I feel some of my colleagues and friends dont have it, they just take the link with girls as a business deal ,or just lust and gave them no importance...

Goe r u sleeping or listening?


Dr raja , dont take me as your patient please.

Listening while sleeping...aka Matlabi Bolaa...

 

[Raaz]

Listening while sleeping...aka Matlabi Bolaa...

Go to bed....begam mare gi...baqi kal....It is too late in London...almost 12 midnight....
Good night ....sleep tight...

 

[rajakhanmd]

that is the whole idea that lets not be Rjaa, Waseem specific
But general pros and cons of arranged marriage visa v pyar muhabat wala waya

''Kis TOPIC ke amad hai kay GeoG kan'mp rhey hain''

Apkey hathoo.n may erte-ash paida ho gya hai yeh likhtey hoey, having anostalgia?

 

[GeoG]

''Kis TOPIC ke amad hai kay GeoG kan'mp rhey hain''

Apkey hathoo.n may erte-ash paida ho gya hai yeh likhtey hoey, having anostalgia?

Bhai it is a slang and this is how it is spoken here.

 

[rajakhanmd]

GeoG:

It is customary for the thread starter to give his opinion about the issue. So, I (we) are all ears.

 

[GeoG]

Go to bed....begam mare gi...baqi kal....It is too late in London...almost 12 midnight....
Good night ....sleep tight...

Bhai Shadi Kay 10 Sal Bad Shohar Mar Proof Ho Jata Hai...

 

[GeoG]

GeoG:

It is customary for the thread starter to give his opinion about the issue. So, I (we) are all ears.

start of thread.....Your post number was 686
Nice try though

 

[rajakhanmd]

start of thread.....Your post number was 686
Nice try though

Main to maqtel main bhe qismat ka sikandar nikla
qurra e fal meray nam ka akser nikla

Aur aap jaisey Jhan deedha Ghaag log mujhay aagey ker rhey hain.

Tha jinhain za'em woh darya bhe mujhe main doobay
main k sehra nazer aata tha sumender nikla.

 

[Waseem]

I think you get same after effects but still arrange marriage has more plus points.

 

[rajakhanmd]

I think you get same after effects but still arrange marriage has more plus points.

Nice point. After all, in arranged marriage while facing the after effects you can at least say '' Hi, amma ji/abba ji kithey phansaya aey''.

 

[Waseem]

Nice point. After all, in arranged marriage while facing the after effects you can at least say '' Hi, amma ji/abba ji kithey phansaya aey''.

And amma ji and abba ji can't say "yeah chorail kahan se le aaya" [hilar]

 

[Adeel]

Love Marriage is ok, as long the parents are involved.

 

[GeoG]

Nice point. After all, in arranged marriage while facing the after effects you can at least say '' Hi, amma ji/abba ji kithey phansaya aey''.

Though you said this as a joke, but this is a reality
in Arranged Marriage, parents feel higher degree of obligation/pressure to safeguard marriage than in case of so called Churail imposed on them.

 

[GeoG]

Love Marriage is ok, as long the parents are involved.

At what stage you think parents should get involved..

 

[Waseem]

Though you said this as a joke, but this is a reality
in Arranged Marriage, parents feel higher degree of obligation/pressure to safeguard marriage than in case of so called Churail imposed on them.

Yes exactly and its very hard for parents to accept love marriage and in most of the cases people have to leave their parents and family for this love marriage.

 

[Waseem]

At what stage you think parents should get involved..

When parents have no choice but to accept your's. (bigsmile)

 

[Adeel]

At what stage you think parents should get involved..

debatable question, I think at the initial stage. So the parents can investigate properly etc

 

[Raaz]

At what stage you think parents should get involved..

depends , the mutual confidence with parents....

The psychology of like marriage is with the girl , who looks good , apparently. Always boys attract fisrt to girl , which is good looking , welldressed...and fashionable....

The normal or below normal girls are in the last of the list....

Parents also think same thing , that our son has ignored the inner quality , and attracted by the face beauty.

This problem could be solved ,

 

[Raaz]

debatable question, I think at the initial stage. So the parents can investigate properly etc

For better results , If we think that parents are the best care taker of u , then keep space always for their decision within your decision.

When u tell them and they tell u that it is good or not , ready to leave her or adopt her.