Dude I appreciate your way of thinking but answer me a few questions:
1. When Japan behaved aggressively, US bombed it. When Japan behaved progressively, US helped it become the second biggest economy. It is not US who decides your fate, it is the behaviour of a nation that dictates how US (or other superpowers) will behave with it. So, when stronger nations are hitting us, it means we are at fault.
The same example is about US / German war at the time of Hitler and immediately after the
Marshall Plan which also made Germany the second biggest economy. Pakistan just doesn't want to behave in a civil progressive manner. Do you not see that??
2. There is no other way to discipline unruly childish behavior other than strictness. Once someone behaves in a civil manner then you can deal with them in other ways but when the question is about lack of decent human behaviour (which Pak people are stuck in) - only ruthless strictness will work.
How can you not see this simple rule?