پاکستان: جنسی تعلق سے پھیلنے والی بیماریوں میں اضافہ

[atensari]

Humans are humans. they are not angels. No one is immune to making mistake.

Just educated your kids to refrain or at least use a condom to protect themselves if they end up making such poor choice in life.

یہی عرض کیا ہے کے بچوں کو بتایا جائے کے ادھرادھر منہ مارنے سے گریز کریں. سب سے اہم تحفظ یہی ہے

 

[Islamabadiya]

آپ اسی عطار کے لونڈے سے دوا لینے چلے، جس کے سبب بیمار ہوئے تھے۔ بجائے اس کے کہ فحاشی و اباحیت پسندی کو لگام دی جائےاور ان بیماریوں کی جڑ کو ختم کیا جائے، آپ نمائشی اقدامات کرنے کا کہہ رہے ہو۔ مغرب میں یہ سیکس ایجوکیشن دی جاتی ہے، مگر اس کے باوجود وہاں سیکس کرائم کا کیا ریٹ ہے، پہلے اس پر تحقیق کر لو۔اور یہ باوجود اس کے ہے کہ وہاں کی پولیس بہت اچھی ہے، اور مجرم پکڑا ہی جاتا ہے۔ لیکن اگر ویسی ہی فحاشی یہاں بھی آ گئی، تو یہاں جرائم کا کیا حال ہو گا، اس پر خدا کی پناہ ہی مانگی جا سکتی ہے۔

Janab I think if sex crimes in Pakistan get reported then they would be far more in numbers than wetern countries, in our culture sex crimes are rampant but hardly get reported due to inefficient police and justice system, social taboos etc,

 

[Humi]

You are talking about something different. Sex education is to educate people about sex and sexual diseases in a proper way rather than kids learning from internet/porn etc. Committing sexual crimes is a different thing and comes from different factors. You take driving lessons so you can learn how to drive and follow traffic laws. That does not mean you automatically start running people over with your car. That comes from your mental state.

Plus consent too... That needs to be an important topic covered by sex Ed too especially in a country where there are still a lot of people who think there is no such thing as a marital rape and a woman dressing or acting a certain way is "just asking for it".

 

[Humi]

I'm not against 4 marriages if the law of the land allows it and you are capable. It's better to have 4 wives than be sexually frustrated and commit 'sexual crimes'.

Is there any data that the more wives or sexual partners you have the less likely you are commit sexual assaults? A significant portion of rapists are married or in a committed relationship. A lot of them just rape their significant partner too.

 

[cestmoi ✅️]

Is there any data that the more wives or sexual partners you have the less likely you are commit sexual assaults? A significant portion of rapists are married or in a committed relationship. A lot of them just rape their significant partner too.

I'm definitely not an expert but the way I understand is that there are 2 categories of people who commit rape or sexual assaults. One who are really sexually frustrated needing more sex and the other who do it for power and control. My comment was more for the former category. What you described is the latter category. For these people, it definitely does not matter how many partners and whether single or married.

 

[Humi]

I'm definitely not an expert but the way I understand is that there are 2 categories of people who commit rape or sexual assaults. One who are really sexually frustrated needing more sex and the other who do it for power and control. My comment was more for the former category. What you described is the latter category. For these people, it definitely does not matter how many partners and whether single or married.

Sure there are people who commit sexual assault out of frustration but I am sure no woman would like to become someone's first or even second wife to prevent men from committing sexual assaults. I don't find it wise to rationalize second marriages because of sexual frustration as that would contribute to the objectification of women as well. :/

 

[cestmoi ✅️]

Sure there are people who commit sexual assault out of frustration but I am sure no woman would like to become someone's first or even second wife to prevent men from committing sexual assaults. I don't find it wise to rationalize second marriages because of sexual frustration as that would contribute to the objectification of women as well. :/

LOL.....I totally understand what you are saying. You are 100% right in your thinking. Thats exactly how women are biologically wired to think.

On the other hand, men are wired to seek sex. Sexual attraction is the #1 reason men are attracted towards women. We can call it anything we want (objectification etc). Why would a man want a 2nd, 3rd, or 4th wife? Just because he wants to spend his money? or Just because he is feeling bad for this new woman? Of course not. It's the sex first and then everything else. Men check out women. Men are wired to seek beautiful women. Is this objectification? Sure it is. Is this natural? Sure it is.

Women seek out financially well-off men. So can we say this is objectification of men? Sure it is. Is this natural? Sure it is. Women want stability, security, emotional attachment and all that. At the end, it's a win-win.

 

[Humi]

LOL.....I totally understand what you are saying. You are 100% right in your thinking. Thats exactly how women are biologically wired to think.

On the other hand, men are wired to seek sex. Sexual attraction is the #1 reason men are attracted towards women. We can call it anything we want (objectification etc). Why would a man want a 2nd, 3rd, or 4th wife? Just because he wants to spend his money? or Just because he is feeling bad for this new woman? Of course not. It's the sex first and then everything else. Men check out women. Men are wired to seek beautiful women. Is this objectification? Sure it is. Is this natural? Sure it is.

Women seek out financially well-off men. So can we say this is objectification of men? Sure it is. Is this natural? Sure it is. Women want stability, security, emotional attachment and all that. At the end, it's a win-win.

That sounds like a horrible way to find a spouse from both genders but unfortunately I suppose that's how a lot of people are thinking :/

 

[cestmoi ✅️]

That sounds like a horrible way to find a spouse from both genders but unfortunately I suppose that's how a lot of people are thinking :/

Yup, that's biology. Thats the back office work. Romance is how we cover it all up and make it look pretty.