Lucky4U, It is known fact around the world that pakistan since the 1980's has been recruiting, training, funding & shipping millitants to kashmir. Now I've recently heard accusations that India has done so. I don't think that is the case but if it is then document it and present it on global stage. If nothing else it'll shame india. But there are no justifications for using terrorism as state policy. Pakistan is an important country and she must play a responsible role in the region. When you've the likes of Hamid Gul and Hafiz Saeed openly propogating jihad on streets of pakistan while police is providing protection........ then what is the world to think?
As for Afghanistan, India has committed $1.2 billion dollars in aid which includes building highways & afghan parliament building. Now again if you believe that India is aiding insurgency in balochistan, then document and present the evidence. No one has done that so far. That for me is indictive that there is not much ground to such allegations. And to think NATO or Karzai gov't would jeopordize their goals of bringing stability to Afghanistan by letting india introduce unstabling factors defies conventional wisdom and common sense.
Now as for what kind of gov't Afghanistan has is entirely for Afghan voters to decide. Please stop treating afghans as a colony of pakistan. Pakistan shares long borders with India & Iran also, are you going to dictate who people there should vote for? If Pakistan respects the decision of afghan voters and has friendly policies toward pakistan, then i can't imagine why afghanistan wouldn't reciprocrate the same to pakistan. India can never be as important to Afghanistan as Pakistan is..... so let's shed the insecurity.