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Waseem

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Aray Waseem bhai aapnay bhi Wanderer ki tarah sharminda karna shuru kar deya :P. Nahi aise koi khas baat nahi bro wohi aam sa khana kha leta hoon yaani salan aur roti Ammi jaan kay peyaray haton sai bani huwe. Baki bas yaar Waseem bhai zindagi sey zara bezaar aur ukhra ukhra sa rehta hoon na aksar is liye dil ka baujh halka karnay aajata hoon yahan logoon ka demagh chaatnay (bigsmile). Khair anyhow its good to be here rather than letting my internal conflicts to consume me internally in my privacy and to be able to share my bak bak with other forum members and cause them some headaches :doh: during this genial process. Smiles...

Bret bro I was just kidding, and we are really honored to have a person like you here. There are few people who can write to the point and give in depth analysis, and you are one of them , please keep sharing.
 

Waseem

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Staff member
Im sure I speak for all when I say, we are glad ur sharing .......
and I think Super Duper Moderator is just jealous that "WE" can write more than 2 lines. He on the other hand has to monitor other members as well as US :) u c bohat sara kaaaaaaaaaam hai na yeah.

Yes I am very jealous from you all (evil), and thanks for explaining reason , mai khud show nahi marna chahta :P
 
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wanderer

Siasat.pk - Blogger
okie where r my wishes.... I wish that the other members of this thread... or forum..

didnt chicken out... and run :P, that they'd come out from wherever they are hiding and post msgs here....
 

rajakhanmd

Senator (1k+ posts)
Saab Larkay shooru main Aisey Kartey Hain Magar akhir Main Phans Jatey Hain.Aab Raja Ki Bhi Woh Hi Stage Hai.Aur Uss Key Ilawa Iss List Main Kuch Aur Bhi Hain,who are just on the verge.Mera Tajurba Aap Loogon Sey Zaiada Hai Aap Log Ussay Beat Nahin Ker Saktay.

Itna zyada tajurbay ka zikr e khair kia hai, ab es ke haqiqat e hal say aagaah be kejiey. Kis trah ka tajerbay aap kertay rhey hain aur un main say koi kamyaab bhee howa hai ya kay nhein? Until and unless you let Waseem bhai know, He is bound to make the same mistakes that you committed to reach a conclusion that you already know. Its better you should just let us know you conclusions taakey Waseem bhai aap kay tajerbay say sahee mani koi hikmat e amli bana sakein.
 

Waseem

Moderator
Staff member
okie where r my wishes.... I wish that the other members of this thread... or forum..

didnt chicken out... and run :P, that they'd come out from wherever they are hiding and post msgs here....

No one is running, see we all are here.
 

rajakhanmd

Senator (1k+ posts)
Waseem bhai pmed me.

It seems he is not happy about the change of the topic. And I believe he says that we are capable of discussing and addressing two topics simultaneously. So he wants to keep all the topics open. Serious ones and the gup shup ones. .

Please, do not confuse my issues with Waseem bhai. Being a doc, I can afford to delay my marriage. No excuse for Waseem bhai at all. He is listening to the following song these days.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0vvhWStNs1A&feature=player_embedded#at=41
 

Waseem

Moderator
Staff member
Itna zyada tajurbay ka zikr e khair kia hai, ab es ke haqiqat e hal say aagaah be kejiey. Kis trah ka tajerbay aap kertay rhey hain aur un main say koi kamyaab bhee howa hai ya kay nhein? Until and unless you let Waseem bhai know, He is bound to make the same mistakes that you committed to reach a conclusion that you already know. Its better you should just let us know you conclusions taakey Waseem bhai aap kay tajerbay say sahee mani koi hikmat e amli bana sakein.

Raja bhai its not fair, keya aap ne canadian ke tajerbay se nahi mustafeed nahi hona?but I know canadian reply he is going to duck your bouncers. :)
 

rajakhanmd

Senator (1k+ posts)
Butt sb:


Does this mean that normally women feel insecurity and anxiety in this regard when it comes to the dealings of their love interests with other ladies / girls?

With a particular background in mind, your question holds valid for males as well. I believe this is not a gender related issue. The relationship package comes with a built in insecurity and anxiety. I believe when they are within a certain limit, they are not just normal but have a positive role in a relationship and if below or above a threshold, may turn into an obsession. And I have the exact same point of view about possessiveness as I believe it shoots off from the love and care you develop for a person.

Life and emotions should never remain at a static emotional level when it comes to the normal individuals. Life and emotions ARE never static. So the cultural, personal, traditions, customs, domestic practices and personal preferences may swing the pendulum of emotions in any direction and that is true for any society. So this means again that your level of trust or anxiety will also be taking a ride on the same pendulum.

if that demeaning and low character person tends to ignore your whole love and care in a matter of few seconds then surely you are better off without the company of such thankless and un-acknowledging low life character So we are expecting a particular type of response from our partner in exchange of our investment? Thus my conclusion is that when our expectations are within limits, they are justified whether they take the shape of anxiety or possessiveness.

You definitely know more than anyone else about the trading that we expect and we demand in case of emotions and love as well. There is no concept of ''Fe Sabeel Illah mohabbat'' when its between two normal individuals.

''Mohabbat aesa derya hai, kay barish rooth be jaey, to pani kem nhein hoota''. I guess this is more of a literary concepts of Ishq e Majaze that is far from reality.
 
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rajakhanmd

Senator (1k+ posts)
Raja bhai its not fair, keya aap ne canadian ke tajerbay se nahi mustafeed nahi hona?but I know canadian reply he is going to duck your bouncers. :)

Saab Larkay shooru main Aisey Kartey Hain Magar akhir Main Phans Jatey Hain.Aab Raja Ki Bhi Woh Hi Stage Hai.

Yaar, if Canadian is really experienced, to hum donoo.N ka faida jo jaey ga. Baat to aagey berhnay do yaar, Man, you don't understand, we both are on the same boat. You ruined my whole plan. ;)
 

Night_Hawk

Siasat.pk - Blogger
Saab Larkay shooru main Aisey Kartey Hain Magar akhir Main Phans Jatey Hain.Aab Raja Ki Bhi Woh Hi Stage Hai.

Yaar, if Canadian is really experienced, to hum donoo.N ka faida jo jaey ga. Baat to aagey berhnay do yaar, Man, you don't understand, we both are on the same boat. You ruined my whole plan. ;)

Any thing I can help you guys with.
 

GeoG

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
Waseem bhai pmed me.

It seems he is not happy about the change of the topic. And I believe he says that we are capable of discussing and addressing two topics simultaneously. So he wants to keep all the topics open. Serious ones and the gup shup ones. .

Please, do not confuse my issues with Waseem bhai. Being a doc, I can afford to delay my marriage. No excuse for Waseem bhai at all. He is listening to the following song these days.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0vvhWStNs1A&feature=player_embedded#at=41

Raja Bhai, What a song.
At first sight, reminded me of Mohammad Asif's family.

Practice is day and night Bro,
You will need it as soon as you land in Pakistan.
 

wanderer

Siasat.pk - Blogger
Raja bhai its not fair, keya aap ne canadian ke tajerbay se nahi mustafeed nahi hona?but I know canadian reply he is going to duck your bouncers. :)

arey Super Duper Moderator.. U missed the idea behind it.

Dr. Sahab nay aap kay shoulder per BANDOOK rakh ker chala di hai :P
 

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