On an average, 145 wives beat their husbands in a month in Jeddah

[Geek]

]Arab Women Who Beat Up Their Husbands
We often hear about violence against women in Middle Eastern countries, but just like in other countries, the issue seems to be more complicated.
145 wives beat their husbands in a month in the Saudi city of Jeddah, constituting 20 percent of the annual rates of spousal violence, according to Jeddah police reports.
According to Fathiyyah Al-Qurashi, a member of the Saudi Human Rights Commission, many wives, in a state of explosion and loss of control, go for physical violence against their husbands.

Speaking to Arab News, Al-Qurashi said that all forms of violence should be rejected but also said that resorting to physical violence is one of the few means women in Saudi Arabia can express their anger
Al-Qurashi warned that there should be more family counseling centers established to deal with this issue before it gets out of control. “We should give more attention to this problem before it snowballs,” she said.
A family counselor told Arab News of a case where a wife used to beat her husband regularly and he had been keeping quiet until the wife beat him up in front of his in-laws. The husband then complained.
The counselor also told of another case in which a wife brutally beat up her husband for quietly waking her up for the morning prayer. The woman reportedly woke up very angry and started beating him badly.
The counselor said that he was able to reach reconciliation in both cases.

http://www.allvoices.com/contributed-news/9710350-arab-women-who-beat-up-their-husbands

 

[Waseem]

Re: On an average, 145 wives beat their husbands in a month

@abbasiali (omg):13:

Bhai, keya yeahi wo wjha hay, ke aap bachoun ko shaadi se draty rehtay hain. :P

 

[fahid_asif]

Re: On an average, 145 wives beat their husbands in a month

Azizies in saudia too

 

[gazoomartian]

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A friend of my wife phoned today. Now wifey is telling me that men in KSA get beaten but their spouses.

sheeeeeeeeeeeesh, I am in big shi t (cry)(cry)

 

[QaiserMirza]

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Husbands should wear helmet all the time while at home.

 

[GraanG2]

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I Strictly demand a Rally for Men's Right...lolz

 

[canadian]

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What has happened to Saudi men ?
No shame ?

 

[wanderer]

Re: On an average, 145 wives beat their husbands in a month

@Geek, @GeoG, [MENTION=11207]canadian[/MENTION], [MENTION=10205]Waseem[/MENTION]

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[awan4ever]

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Astaghfirullah!!

This is indeed the sign of Qayamah. The noble house of Saud should silence these 145 women immediately. Chop off their...lady parts!(serious)

I call upon the great Al Khadim Al Harmein Al Shareefain, leader of the faithful, man of honor and dignity and of hundreds of wives to take action lest one day he also gets beaten up, and considering that he has so many wives and is frail of health he might not be able to withstand the pounding!! :P

 

[canadian]

Re: On an average, 145 wives beat their husbands in a month

@Geek, @GeoG, @canadian , @Waseem

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That's a serious matter wanderer........:13::13::13:

 

[wanderer]

Re: On an average, 145 wives beat their husbands in a month

That's a serious matter wanderer........:13::13::13:

its funny. In all sanity ....give me a break.... guys geting beaten up by girls... !!! cant be such a big number !!! maybe 1 in a million :P

 

[azrana]

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Rabb to marta naheen un ko, Nabi, e kareem key sadkey sey (PBUH) to yeah azzab nazil kar diya, keh aurtoon sey maar khaoo, per woh baddoo hain un ko thora hi lagti hey,

 

[GeoG]

Re: On an average, 145 wives beat their husbands in a month

@Geek, @GeoG, @canadian , @Waseem

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Yeh GeoG, [MENTION=11207]canadian[/MENTION] Tou Theek Hai, Geek not sure
[MENTION=10205]Waseem[/MENTION] Kis Chakar Main Kissi Ki Bivi Say Mar Kha Raha Hai....

and how dare to exclude our Choudhary [MENTION=10641]wadaich[/MENTION] Sab
Bhai Sab Tou Itnay Achay Hain Keh Aap Sab Araam Karain
Main Aaap Kay Hissay Ki Average Puri Karwa Laita Hoon...

 

[GeoG]

Re: On an average, 145 wives beat their husbands in a month

maybe 1 in a million :P

I always thought I am one in a Million......lolz.

 

[canadian]

Re: On an average, 145 wives beat their husbands in a month

Yeh GeoG, @canadian Tou Theek Hai, Geek not sure
@Waseem Kis Chakar Main Kissi Ki Bivi Say Mar Kha Raha Hai....

and how dare to exclude our Choudhary @wadaich Sab
Bhai Sab Tou Itnay Achay Hain Keh Aap Sab Araam Karain
Main Aaap Kay Hissay Ki Average Puri Karwa Laita Hoon...

Pata nahin wanderer ney wadaich kou kaisey exclude ker dia !

Waseem Bhai tou hamesha pardey key peechey hotey hain.....:lol:

 

[Bombaybuz]

Only Geek can dig that deep and come out with this kind of sh*it

 

[Faiza]

60 Ways To Keep Your Wifes Love


1. Make her feel secure. Allow her to feel the sakeena.2. Greet her with As-salaamu-alaikum wa rahmatullah this will keep the shaytan out of your home
3. Know your wife is a fragile whistle take care of this whistle (i.e. treat her in a gentle way)
4. Advise her in privacy and during a loving, romantic and/or peaceful atmosphere
5. Be generous to your wife
6. Give her your space/seat
7. Avoid anger one way is to keep wudhu at all times, another is to sit down or lie down when angry
8. Looking good, smelling great
9. Dont be rigid or you maybe broken be good and be flexible
10. Be a good listener
11. Say Yes to flattery, No to arguments
12. Call your wife with the best of names
13. Give her pleasant surprises
14. Preserve the tongue (i.e. dont say abusive words since some words take years to wipe out)
15. Accept her shortcomings
16. Show her that you appreciate her
17. Encourage her to keep her kin relationships, especially with her mother and father
18. Pick topics of interest to her during conversations
19. Show that she is a wonderful wife in front of her relatives (and friends)
20. Give her gifts all the time
21. Get rid of the rust (routine of life) once in a while
22. Think good of your wife
23. Overlook any small words or actions that you did not like (i.e. dont save them in your memory)
24. Add a drop of patience every day. Increase this patience during pregnancy and her monthly cycle
25. Expect and respect her jealousy
26. Be humble know that her success at home is your success
27. Dont make your friends happy at the cost of your wifes happiness
28. Help with housework
29. Dont try to force your wife to love your mother. Help her to respect your mother and father and gradually the love will come
30. Make her feel that she is an ideal wife
31. Remember your wife in your dua
32. Leave the past to Allah (SWT) i.e. dont dig up past issues
33. Dont show that you are doing a favour when you do something (e.g. bring food home etc.). Know that Allah (SWT) is the provider and your are only a courier
34. Treat the Shaytan (and not your wife) as your enemy. e.g. when an argument breaks out know that present is you, your wife and shaytan.
35. Feed your wife with your hands this is a blessing
36. Look at your wife as a precious pearl so protect her from the envy of the shayateen
37. Show her your pearls (smiles) smiling is like giving in charity
38. Deal with the little things/problems immediately before they become big issues
39. Dontt be hard or harsh-hearted
40. Respect her thinking and thought
41. Help her to dig within herself to find success
42. Respect the boundaries of the intimate relationship
43. Help her take care of your children
44. Give her the gifts of the tongue
45. Sit down and eat meals together with your wife
46. Let her know when you are travelling and the date and time you are coming back (i.e. no surprises)
47. Dont leave your home to avoid an argument
48. Protect the secrecy and privacy of your home dont share it with others
49. Encourage each other in worshiping Allah (SWT) e.g. prayers, attend lectures, plan to go on hajj or umrah trip together
50. Know her rights and treat them as something that are engraved in your heart and conscious
51. Live with them with kindness treat your wife with goodness in prosperity and adversity
52. Send a messenger before any intimite relationship (i.e. kissing and sweet words)
53. Dont share your family problems with others (except when seeking genuine islamic advice)
54. Show that you care for her health
55. Know that you have shortcomings and are not always right
56. Share your happiness and sadness with your wife
57. Have mercy on her weakness
58. Be the comfortable chest for her and allow her to lean on you
59. Accept her as-is
60. Have a good intention (niyaah) for your wife at all the times

http://alqamardesigns.wordpress.com/2008/06/20/60-ways/

 

[waleedhussain]

I am waiting for my wife to come and apply these Super Sixties on her ;) ... Any one would share their experiences?

 

[wanderer]

Re: On an average, 145 wives beat their husbands in a month

Yeh GeoG, @canadian Tou Theek Hai, Geek not sure
@Waseem Kis Chakar Main Kissi Ki Bivi Say Mar Kha Raha Hai....

and how dare to exclude our Choudhary @wadaich Sab
Bhai Sab Tou Itnay Achay Hain Keh Aap Sab Araam Karain
Main Aaap Kay Hissay Ki Average Puri Karwa Laita Hoon...

sigh.... kitni explanations daynie pardtie hain...

Laughed coz Geek posted it, Canadian and Waseem were feeling sorry for the lot. And U agreed with it :) Wadaich ... stayed out of it... so had to keep him there. Now that could only be, because he knows how the beating is...

 

[wanderer]

Re: On an average, 145 wives beat their husbands in a month

I always thought I am one in a Million......lolz.

awwwwwwwwwww so that was u!!!
hai beecharay.