You occupied Muslim majority state of Kashmir deliberately and against the free will of majority, as opposed to occupying the Hindu majority Deccan at the height of 1947 partition. To top the cake with icing, you infiltrated East Pakistan in 1971 and sparked mutiny to segregate a sovereign country. To this day you deny Pakistan, 1/5th your size, the right to exist.
The onus for confidence building lies on your emaciated shoulders. Let’s see if you are up to the task!