marriage issue

pk78601

Councller (250+ posts)
Dear all,

I'm posting this thread on behalf of my brother need some valuable advice from you all

My younger brother had an issue with his wife she have left with two kids and refused to come back, after several months of dispute tried every thing possible with each relative to solve the issue she doesn't want to come back.

There is no one in the house who can cook food as mother got injured and cant walk any more. My brother went to union council asking for the permission to get marry another girl so some one could cook food in the house, union council guys asking for 80k PKR to pay and we will do arrangement but we will not provide the permission certificate to marry again. He is in big trouble he cant divorce her bcos he have kids, he cant marry some one else as he need permission from wife, union council wont give him permission certificate but they will take money just for another marriage registration and on the end he will be in trouble of court and punishments with penalties of getting merry with his wife permission.

any suggestion for this issue from experts here jazak Allah
 
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bhaibarood

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
What nonsense he is marrying for food ?
Saley ko bawarchi hire karney do . Biwi ka achar dalega ?
Seedha seedha bolo ke pehli biwi ko tang karna hai ,talaq bhi nahi deni aur doosri shadi ke mazey bhi lotney hain.
 
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Humi

Prime Minister (20k+ posts)
"My brother went to union council asking for the permission to get marry another girl so some one could cook food in the house "

Is that all women are to you? Someone to cook and clean? You people need to stop treating your wives as housemaids. Your parents are your responsibility, not your wife's. Countless single women work full time and still take care of their children and aging parents; often without any help from relatives. They don't marry a man to do house work. Grow up and learn to be more responsible.
 
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baalti

Senator (1k+ posts)
where ever u are, there must be lawyers, best equipped to do the job, on online forums good luck....
 

Billo Rani

Voter (50+ posts)
Oh boy. Your brother needs a cook not a wife. Maybe that is why his wife left in the first place? Maybe she just felt like a servant. Tell your brother if he is Muslim he is still responsible for providing for his kids. Make sure he is paying their expenses and accepting his responsibilities as a Muslim man first.
 

Billo Rani

Voter (50+ posts)
Moi aussi. Most Pakistani men are mommy's boys who think it is beneath them to cook or do their own laundry. I also had to leave my parents at 13 and do everything myself because there was no other option. Luckily I was blessed with a wife who takes very good care of me but I never take her for granted.

Your brother needs to learn how to cook. Every man needs to learn it these days. This is the most important thing a man can do for himself.

No one ever cooked for me. I have been cooking my own since I was 13.
 

cestmoi246

Minister (2k+ posts)
Moi aussi. Most Pakistani men are mommy's boys who think it is beneath them to cook or do their own laundry. I also had to leave my parents at 13 and do everything myself because there was no other option. Luckily I was blessed with a wife who takes very good care of me but I never take her for granted.
My mom died when I was a toddler and had no sister. My dad taught me how to cook. Never looked back. It's very liberating
 

kakamuna420

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
What nonsense he is marrying for food ?
Saley ko bawarchi hire karney do . Biwi ka achar dalega ?
Seedha seedha bolo ke pehli biwi ko tang karna hai ,talaq bhi nahi deni aur doosri shadi ke mazey bhi lotney hain.
Most probably a villager who tried to poison the fist wife but she escaped successfuly.
Now trying to marry another so that he could get gold and dowry. Such people need a firing squad and not permission to marry
 

pk78601

Councller (250+ posts)
great advice with nice abuse now lets assume the person have only some thing like 15K salary he is rickshaw driver only 10th pass. where he is going to pay for maid he doesn't even have money to save. He will cook food and do house hold as well he will drive rickshaw for 12 hrs to earn some buks. Wife kept on sleeping in house and refuse to help him even to manage a small store in house to earn some thing for their kids. Yes now a days parents are big issue for most elite class people they can trough them in separate house and enjoy life with wife and kids, Yes we need to hire maids for them cos our kids will also hire maids for us when we become old. and a wife left bcos mother had accident and she left due to 6 months bed rest ? sorry we need think about those labor class also who cant afford maids etc.
 

kakamuna420

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
Moi aussi. Most Pakistani men are mommy's boys who think it is beneath them to cook or do their own laundry. I also had to leave my parents at 13 and do everything myself because there was no other option. Luckily I was blessed with a wife who takes very good care of me but I never take her for granted.
Wow 13 and a caring wife. Great sir?
At 13 i broke with my gf and was spending my pocket money on broast and behari kebab roll. Yummt
 

Humi

Prime Minister (20k+ posts)
great advice with nice abuse now lets assume the person have only some thing like 15K salary he is rickshaw driver only 10th pass. where he is going to pay for maid he doesn't even have money to save. He will cook food and do house hold as well he will drive rickshaw for 12 hrs to earn some buks. Wife kept on sleeping in house and refuse to help him even to manage a small store in house to earn some thing for their kids. Yes now a days parents are big issue for most elite class people they can trough them in separate house and enjoy life with wife and kids, Yes we need to hire maids for them cos our kids will also hire maids for us when we become old. and a wife left bcos mother had accented and she left due to 6 months bed rest ? sorry we need think about those labor class also who cant afford maids etc.
he can't afford maid but he can afford two wives???
 

kakamuna420

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
"My brother went to union council asking for the permission to get marry another girl so some one could cook food in the house "

Is that all women are to you? Someone to cook and clean? You people need to stop treating your wives as housemaids. Your parents are your responsibility, not your wife's. Countless single women work full time and still take care of their children and aging parents; often without any help from relatives. They don't marry a man to do house work. Grow up and learn to be more responsible.
Union council should have opened fire
 
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