Its not personal. You label this marraige a sham marraige. Love has no boundries. If these two love birds are trying to have legal and Islamic realationship. Instead of admiring a girl to travel far, you label a beautiful relation into something as a business deal. I have been in US for many years and seen Pakistani/Indian guys/girls getting married to PakIstani/Indian Americans. As soon they secure their immigration status. They left that poor boy/girl with a nasty divorce. I have been telling my friends that they must sign a pre-neptual agreement before marrying their daughters/son to these gold diggers.
It "appears" to be a sham marriage. I could be wrong or i could be right.
First is the age difference. The woman is well into her old age and wouldn't be able to find an American guy to marry her.
Second is the sexual experience difference. The guy is obviously a virgin and the woman must have a lot of sexual partners as the American culture is that you're made fun of if you don't have sex the moment you turn 12-13.
Third is American girls and woman freak out if you say you love them if you haven't fucked them a million times and are living together with them. Love is a very strong word for Americans and you can only utter that after you have been with a girl for years.
You're confusing Eastern culture with Western. It was a surprise to me too and i found it hilarious but it is true. You can't say you love a girl even if you fuck her on a constant basis. If you do that, you will freak her out and she will call you insecure, needy, unexperienced and leave you.
Maybe this is an exception. But i am simply stating the rule for you. If you still live in US, go and find a girl and tell her you love her and want to marry her. I want to see the reaction you will get.
Do that in Pakistan and the girl will react differently. Marriage is a sacred thing in Eastern world, just an expensive useless waste of time in Western world. I know people who spend half their lives with a girl and still don't want to label their relationship. Some of them don't even want to say it's a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.
So yeah, these are facts. Maybe it is wrong in this couple's case but i will state the facts (Americans don't fall in love in 8 months, they need 8 years, it doesn't mean i am against this marriage. Go and do it. Just don't use the girl to go to America.
I wanted to hear the guy say that he will live in Pakistan. That would give legitimacy to the relationship.