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[saeenji]

Re: Share you thoughts on Love, Loyalty and Respect

fortunately for most of us that is true...I love my parents and know they only want best for me :)

I don't understand, on one side you say elders of today? and then you say (highlighted part). :13: Care to elaborate........

 

[Humi]

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I don't understand, on one side you say elders of today? and then you say (highlighted part). :13: Care to elaborate........

I think the meaning was lost in typing...lol...I agree that our parents want the best for us....but as far as marriages are concerned, your potential spouse' parents want the best for their child and not necessarily you so they might lie or hide certain things from you as they want what is best for their kids as well...and same with your parents, they hide things and your flaws which might make someone reject you...which is why I said even though they want the best for you, they do not always take an ethical approach...

 

[saeenji]

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I think the meaning was lost in typing...lol...I agree that our parents want the best for us....but as far as marriages are concerned, your potential spouse' parents want the best for their child and not necessarily you so they might lie or hide certain things from you as they want what is best for their kids as well...and same with your parents, they hide things and your flaws which might make someone reject you...which is why I said even though they want the best for you, they do not always take an ethical approach...

I agree to an extent........ Everything has it's pros and cons, but I personally feel that in case of the parents the pros out-weigh the cons. I think the magnitude of 'Adults' pretending would be higher compared to parents. :)

 

[Syeda S]

syeda ji baaz ooqat hum apne dil main kisi shaks ko jhoota dost , bewaffa insan , emotionless maan lete hain , aur phir yehi cheez hamare dil main pukhta hoti chali jati hai , zaroori nahi yeh sach ho , baat karne k bhi koi jagha koi muqaam hota hai , moon utha kar insan har jagha Ishqiya baatain to shroo nahi kar sakta , Sirf is liye k samne wala hum ko Sacha samjhe

Sohraab mera ye matlab nahi tha.... ap theek keh rahay hain, but kuch aur keh rahay hain, apki baat pay kahon go k kabi kisi insan se aese galti ho jati hain k wo chahye kitna b acha ho, us galti ki bina pay hum usay kabi wo jaga nahi de sakte jo usay deni chahye or jo wo deserve karta hai.
jab tak affiliation na ho its hard to talk something real.
shuru me aik stranger b dosre ko almost sacha samjhta hai. but us sach pay trust kafi time baad ata hai.

 

[Syeda S]

ab yeh baat bhi theek hai

lekin yeh baat karte waqt bhi bande ko sab se pehle aik nazar apni zaat par aur satuation par rakhni chahiye

main phir kahon ga k agar main aur aap kal se is forum par apne apne Ishq ki daastanain sunana shroo kar dain to hum apna mazaq hi banwain ge :) bus yehi Woh baat hai jo Samajhne ki bhi hai aur samjhane ki bhi hai

apka kia matlab hai k mein koi apni ishq ki dastan suna rahi hon. well muje jo quote achi lagti hai mein share kar deti hon, is me dastan kahan se a gai bhai?

 

[Sohraab]

apka kia matlab hai k mein koi apni ishq ki dastan suna rahi hon. well muje jo quote achi lagti hai mein share kar deti hon, is me dastan kahan se a gai bhai?

main ne yeh baat aap k liye nahi ki thi mohtarma , main ne yeh baat apne liye ki hai , mere zehen main apni aik baat thi ussi k tanazur main yeh baat ki hai

 

[Sohraab]

Sohraab mera ye matlab nahi tha.... ap theek keh rahay hain, but kuch aur keh rahay hain, apki baat pay kahon go k kabi kisi insan se aese galti ho jati hain k wo chahye kitna b acha ho, us galti ki bina pay hum usay kabi wo jaga nahi de sakte jo usay deni chahye or jo wo deserve karta hai.
jab tak affiliation na ho its hard to talk something real.
shuru me aik stranger b dosre ko almost sacha samjhta hai. but us sach pay trust kafi time baad ata hai.

mujhe kisi aur ka to nahi pata , main zaati noohiyat ki baatain karna sakht na pasand karta hoon mujhe nafrat hai is cheez se lekin aaj aap se aik personal baat karta hoon
meri aik bohut kareb taren dost hai bohut purani jis k saath meri la tadad laraiyan hui hain lekin woh ab bhi meri dost hain , main ne us ki kisi bhi ghalti yah dil dukhane par us k saath waqti taur par laraiyan ki hain lekin koi bhi baat dil main nahi rakhi , mera dil us k liye saaf hai lekin agar us ka dil mere liye saaf na ho to main kch keh nahi sakta , main ussay apna sacha dost samajhta hoon lekin woh mujhe itne saal guzar jane k baad aik jhoota dost samajhti hai lekin mere dil main us ki kisi bhi ghalti yah larai ki wajha se us ki respect aur ahmiyat kam nahi hui .............. ab dekhain jo kuch main ne likha hai yakeen jane mujhe likhte huay apni jaan bohut hi buri buri si lag rahi hai kuin k is type ki baatain karna mujhe nahi pasand :)
main ne zindagi k aik maur par aa kar yeh faisla kia tha k chahe kuch bhi ho jai main zaati noohiyat ki is type ki jazbati baatain kisi k samne nahi karon ga

Har shaks ki apni aik nafsiyat hoti hai

Aur meri Nafsiyat hai mujhe is type ki baatain likhte huay aur karte huay apni Jaan bohut sakht buri lagti hai , aur issi chakaar main aur is k ilawa bhi kuch baatain hain jis ki wajha se meri aik bohut kareb tareen dost muj se bad zann ho chukki hai , mujhe apna jhoota dost aur bura dost samajhti hai , yeh post bhi sirf aap ko samjhane k liye thi jo likhte huay mujhe bohut bura laga

 

[Syeda S]

main ne yeh baat aap k liye nahi ki thi mohtarma , main ne yeh baat apne liye ki hai , mere zehen main apni aik baat thi ussi k tanazur main yeh baat ki hai

this is fact, we always talk, like or choose something on our experience from Past. Mostly we attract to the words that attached to our past.

 

[Syeda S]

mujhe kisi aur ka to nahi pata , main zaati noohiyat ki baatain karna sakht na pasand karta hoon mujhe nafrat hai is cheez se lekin aaj aap se aik personal baat karta hoon
meri aik bohut kareb taren dost hai bohut purani jis k saath meri la tadad laraiyan hui hain lekin woh ab bhi meri dost hain , main ne us ki kisi bhi ghalti yah dil dukhane par us k saath waqti taur par laraiyan ki hain lekin koi bhi baat dil main nahi rakhi , mera dil us k liye saaf hai lekin agar us ka dil mere liye saaf na ho to main kch keh nahi sakta , main ussay apna sacha dost samajhta hoon lekin woh mujhe itne saal guzar jane k baad aik jhoota dost samajhti hai lekin mere dil main us ki kisi bhi ghalti yah larai ki wajha se us ki respect aur ahmiyat kam nahi hui .............. ab dekhain jo kuch main ne likha hai yakeen jane mujhe likhte huay apni jaan bohut hi buri buri si lag rahi hai kuin k is type ki baatain karna mujhe nahi pasand :)
main ne zindagi k aik maur par aa kar yeh faisla kia tha k chahe kuch bhi ho jai main zaati noohiyat ki is type ki jazbati baatain kisi k samne nahi karon ga

Har shaks ki apni aik nafsiyat hoti hai

Aur meri Nafsiyat hai mujhe is type ki baatain likhte huay aur karte huay apni Jaan bohut sakht buri lagti hai , aur issi chakaar main aur is k ilawa bhi kuch baatain hain jis ki wajha se meri aik bohut kareb tareen dost muj se bad zann ho chukki hai , mujhe apna jhoota dost aur bura dost samajhti hai , yeh post bhi sirf aap ko samjhane k liye thi jo likhte huay mujhe bohut bura laga

Thank you ap ne share kia.... wese ap ne itni story nahi btai jitni ap ne apology kari hai...chalain ap ne ab baat kar he di hai, to mein ap ko bta deti hon, apko lagta hai she dont trust u or jhoota samajhti hai... but may be ap isi jhoota honay kay der ki waja se us se full loyal ho. and usay lagta ho k wo apko show karay k she trust you fully tou ap us ko bother nahi karo gay....this is one option.

dosri aik aur baat kay ap apnay point se sochte ho, you are right jab ap ne kisi k lie kuch kara to ap ko acknowledgement chahye hoti hai. but we dont know what is other person's state of mind. ap shaid jantay nahi ho gay kay ap kay kisi aese action ne dosre bandy ko turn off kardia hai, jis action ka apko nahi pata.

 

[Sohraab]

Thank you ap ne share kia.... wese ap ne itni story nahi btai jitni ap ne apology kari hai...chalain ap ne ab baat kar he di hai, to mein ap ko bta deti hon, apko lagta hai she dont trust u or jhoota samajhti hai... but may be ap isi jhoota honay kay der ki waja se us se full loyal ho. and usay lagta ho k wo apko show karay k she trust you fully tou ap us ko bother nahi karo gay....this is one option.

dosri aik aur baat kay ap apnay point se sochte ho, you are right jab ap ne kisi k lie kuch kara to ap ko acknowledgement chahye hoti hai. but we dont know what is other person's state of mind. ap shaid jantay nahi ho gay kay ap kay kisi aese action ne dosre bandy ko turn off kardia hai, jis action ka apko nahi pata.

baat aisi hai k main ne to apni dost k liye kabhi kuch nahi kia sirf laraiyan hi ki hai aur agar kuch kia bhi hain to un laraiyon se sara hisab barabar ho gaya hai , mera matlab hai meri har achi baat un laraiyon ne zero kar di hai , nahi main us k saath is liue loyal nahi hon k woh mujhe jhoota samjhe gi , main is liye loyal hoon kuin k main ne us se pehle bhi materialistic fake type ki larkiyan dekhi hain jo k woh nahi hai , woh meri achi dost hai aur sincere genuine person bhi , khair chor dain ab is behes ko auur imran khan aur qadri ke Circus ki taraf chalain :)

 

[MADdoo]

well it is so true.... sometime we we have only one when we are ending up with first one...right.?

Apka matlab hai, marne se pehle hamain pata lagta hai yehe zindagi thee jo hum ne ganwa di hai,,,, ya when we grow old.

 

[Humi]

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