Runaway bride returns home to new toilet in Uttar Pradesh - Shining India

modern.fakir

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
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Pakistan welcome's this initiative as a step take in the right direction (bigsmile) . We appreciate the steps taken by the home minister as it works to make lives easier of the people for more than half of India.

Such initiatives will surely work to enhance the lives of the people. On the same note we would urge some members of this forum to invest a few dollars and join hands with Pakistan in helping alleviate this toilet shortage in India :)

Lets let peace and love prevail
(bigsmile)
 
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rtabasum2

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
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Pakistan welcome's this initiative as a step take in the right direction (bigsmile) . We appreciate the steps taken by the home minister as it works to make lives easier of the people for more than half of India.

Such initiatives will surely work to enhance the lives of the people. On the same note we would urge some members of this forum to invest a few dollars and join hands with Pakistan in helping alleviate this toilet shortage in India :)

Lets love peace and love prevail
(bigsmile)


lagta hey India say aap ka purana yarana hey,chupaie nahe chupta:)
 

modern.fakir

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
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I've always said ...I like India ,..Im one of its well- wishers unfortunately some idiots here take it the wrong way (bigsmile)



lagta hey India say aap ka purana yarana hey,chupaie nahe chupta:)
 

rtabasum2

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
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I've always said ...I like India ,..Im one of its well- wishers unfortunately some idiots here take it the wrong way (bigsmile)

yes I can feel your love for India they should be proud that some pakistanis care alot and have an eagle eye and want them on track:)
 

modern.fakir

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
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Precisely ! ..and it takes a Pakistani to figure this out :lol: ...Thats why I LOVVEEE Pakistan (bigsmile)

yes I can feel your love for India they should be proud that some pakistanis care alot and have an eagle eye and want them on track:)
 

modern.fakir

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
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Sure ...:)

For some reason they are starting to bore me now ! :) ...they have no concrete comebacks to these problems .

One idiot come up and starts blaming the population...Im like well look at CHINA ...they have a bigger population and do better than you ...then he has no credible response ! :)

So i hope we get to talk to some good educated people who can talk about some concrete solutions for the problems of our India
(bigsmile)

now I will wait for your takra:P
 
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Fatema

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i have a solution to this problem, they have a dowry custom.... all brides should bring one toilet in a dowry. . .:)
 

modern.fakir

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
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Very Creative ! :) ...Thanks Fatima !

i have a solution to this problem, they have a dowry custom.... all brides should bring one toilet in a dowry. . .:)
 

Humi

Prime Minister (20k+ posts)
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good...if men can demand dowry, brides can have their own demands as well...
 

سعد

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:lol:...:lol:...:lol:........ Funny India
 

modern.fakir

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
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And they very well might do that as in India from years of female infanticide, the males are more than the number of females. So because of the imbalance alot of men have to "buy" brides. :)

And hence their demands go higher ! ...some Natural Justice I suppose
(bigsmile)

good...if men can demand dowry, brides can have their own demands as well...
 

Humi

Prime Minister (20k+ posts)
Re: Marriage In India: Grooms Required To Prove They Have A Toilet Before Marrying : Huffington Post

And they very well might do that as in India from years of female infanticide, the males are more than the number of females. So because of the imbalance alot of men have to "buy" brides. :)

And hence their demands go higher ! ...some Natural Justice I suppose
(bigsmile)

Actually its brides buying husbands wherever the case of demanding dowry is present....men don't look at it this way but basically they are selling themselves when they demand dowry...wife pays his price and he marries her...
 

modern.fakir

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
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Thats true for the lady paying the price (bigsmile)

Actually its brides buying husbands wherever the case of demanding dowry is present....men don't look at it this way but basically they are selling themselves when they demand dowry...wife pays his price and he marries her...
 

rtabasum2

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
Re: Marriage In India: Grooms Required To Prove They Have A Toilet Before Marrying : Huffington Post

i have a solution to this problem, they have a dowry custom.... all brides should bring one toilet in a dowry. . .:)

It seems the problem is more deep rooted than meets the eye. Seems lack of toilets are cultural norms adapted by Indian society which is very worrisome. Check this article by Indian journalistIs India's lack of toilets a cultural problem?

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Is anybody really surprised that nearly half of India's 1.2 billion people have no toilet at home?
Not really. The India Human Development report has been saying this for a while. The situation is worse in the villages, where two-thirds of the homes don't have toilets. Open defecation is rife, and remains a major impediment in achieving millennium development goals which include reducing by half the proportion of people without access to basic sanitation by 2015.
Is the lack of toilets and preference for open defecation a cultural issue in a society where the habit actually perpetuates social oppression, as proved by the reduced but continued existence of low caste human scavengers and sweepers?
It would seem so.
Mahatma Gandhi, India's greatest leader, had, in the words of a biographer, a "Tolstoyian preoccupation with sanitation and cleaning of toilets". Once he inspected toilets in the city of Rajkot in Gujarat. He reported that they were "dark and stinking and reeking with filth and worms" in the homes of the wealthy and in a Hindu temple. The homes of the untouchables simply had no toilets. "Latrines are for you big people," an untouchable told Gandhi.
Many years later when Gandhi began encouraging his disciples to work as sanitation officers and scavengers in villages, his diligent secretary and diarist Madhav Desai noted the attitudes of villagers. "They don't have any feeling at all," he wrote. "It will not be surprising if within a few days they start believing that we are their scavengers."
India's enduring shame is clearly rooted in cultural attitudes. More than half a century after Independence, many Indians continue to relieve themselves in the open and litter unhesitatingly, but keep their homes spotlessly clean. Yes, the state has failed to extend sanitation facilities, but people must also take the blame.
In the upstart suburb of Gurgaon, where I live, my educated, upwardly mobile, rich neighbours sent their pet dogs outside with their servants to defecate and refuse to clean up the mess. As long as their condominium is clean, it is all right. These are the same people who believe that the government is at the root of all evil.
Campaigns Things are getting better in the villages, however slowly. Only 40% had access to sanitation facilities in 2002. This increased to 51% in 2008-009. More than 60% of homes in Bihar, Jharkhand, Madhya Pradesh, Orissa, Rajasthan, Tamil Nadu and Uttarakhand states were still without toilets. There are other interesting behavioural and cultural pointers: Sikh and Christian households had the highest - over 70% - access to improved sanitation. Hindus - at 45% - had the least access.
India provides subsidies to construct toilets and runs sanitation and hygiene campaigns. Federal spending on sanitation was increased nearly three-fold in 2005. In 2003, the government kicked off a scheme to award village councils which are able to eliminate open defecation. Kerala has been the best performer with 87% of its village councils picking up the award. Only 2% of councils in dirt-poor Bihar won in a dismal commentary on the state of its sanitation.
India could take the lead from the tiny states of Himachal Pradesh and Haryana. Both have used and empowered local people to tackle open defecation, build toilets and adopt good waste management. Haryana provides subsidies to poor households to build toilets, and enlists women to run campaigns in what is a largely patriarchal and less progressive state. Volunteers visit homes, encouraging people to built toilets. All homes in Himachal Pradesh have a toilet today, say government surveys. The plan is to get rid of open defecation by the end of this year.
But until the time its people get rid of curious - and skewed - cultural attitudes to community sanitation and hygiene, India will never have enough toilets.
 
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Unicorn

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Pakistan welcome's this initiative as a step take in the right direction (bigsmile) . We appreciate the steps taken by the home minister as it works to make lives easier of the people for more than half of India.

Such initiatives will surely work to enhance the lives of the people. On the same note we would urge some members of this forum to invest a few dollars and join hands with Pakistan in helping alleviate this toilet shortage in India :)

Lets let peace and love prevail
(bigsmile)

This member is not giving one red cent. It is u r a** you look after is my motto.

We urge Pakistani Govt to take measures so that 35 percent of population can have toilet don't let it get to India's label.

In the mean time I will try to come up with some Ideas, while I am seating at my throne like Toi***. Some of my best ideas have come this way.
 

Unicorn

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Sure ...:)

For some reason they are starting to bore me now ! :) ...they have no concrete comebacks to these problems .

One idiot come up and starts blaming the population...Im like well look at CHINA ...they have a bigger population and do better than you ...then he has no credible response ! :)

So i hope we get to talk to some good educated people who can talk about some concrete solutions for the problems of our India
(bigsmile)

CHINA has a big problem in this department to(yapping) They have one child policy (clap)(clap) that will reduce their population very sharply in couple of decades.

Now come up with a better example with your pea Bra**[hilar][hilar][hilar]
 

desicad

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
Re: Marriage In India: Grooms Required To Prove They Have A Toilet Before Marrying : Huffington Post

Actually its brides buying husbands wherever the case of demanding dowry is present....men don't look at it this way but basically they are selling themselves when they demand dowry...wife pays his price and he marries her...
good.....:).......was it not me who pointed this out?..............;)
 
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modern.fakir

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
Re: Marriage In India: Grooms Required To Prove They Have A Toilet Before Marrying : Huffington Post

[hilar][hilar][hilar]...Yeah thats where your ideas end up too ....in the toilet cuz they stinkk ![hilar][hilar][hilar]

This member is not giving one red cent. It is u r a** you look after is my motto.

We urge Pakistani Govt to take measures so that 35 percent of population can have toilet don't let it get to India's label.

In the mean time I will try to come up with some Ideas, while I am seating at my throne like Toi***. Some of my best ideas have come this way.
 

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