nikah and "mahwar"(monthly expenses) for wife. a query

[hamza100]

one of my closest relative is getting married . but there came a dead lock on nikah issues that on the issue of monthly expenses provided to wife. i need some help from you guys .any personal experience or any information source

is "mahwar" (monthly expense) given to wife part of nikah nama??

can a female demand monthly expense to be written in nikah nama like "mahar"

what is status of "monthly expense" given to wife in islam ??

 

[nomy823]

Yes, There is a Terms and Condition section in Nikah Nama both for the female and male parties (with the heading "Dulhan ki taraf se sharait" & Dulha ki taraf se sharait).
So any girl or her parents can demand few such conditions to be included in Nikah Nama for the future safety of their daughter. I think every parents should insist to include the following conditions in Nikah Nama
1- Justified monthly Expenses
2- Handsome amount to be paid to the girl if the boy wants second marriage.
3- Handsome amount in case the boy gives the divorce

But these conditions should be negotiated and mutually agreed well before the time of Nikah

 

[hamza100]

Yes, There is a Terms and Condition section in Nikah Nama both for the female and male parties (with the heading "Dulhan ki taraf se sharait" & Dulha ki taraf se sharait).
So any girl or her parents can demand few such conditions to be included in Nikah Nama for the future safety of their daughter. I think every parents should insist to include the following conditions in Nikah Nama
1- Justified monthly Expenses
2- Handsome amount to be paid to the girl if the boy wants second marriage.
3- Handsome amount in case the boy gives the divorce

But these conditions should be negotiated and mutually agreed well before the time of Nikah

what if the dulha party dont agree for monthly expense???
what if they say that its not in islam(monthly expense)

 

[nomy823]

If the Dulha party is not agreed than the girls parents has the right to refuse this proposal

 

[saheeen]

what if the dulha party dont agree for monthly expense???
what if they say that its not in islam(monthly expense)

Dulhan party should understand and respect Dulha's decision,
in my personal openion it should be left, but only lumsum Haq Maher should be written with thinking to payoff before 1st marriage night. ( niyat )
any amount / gold or silver.
both the parties should prior agreed.

even if they dont understand, Dulha can explain them that he is performing Sunnat with the marriage, ( apna ghar basanay ja raha hay ) so what ever he will earn, he gonna look after his wife ( family )
Rozi daynay wala Allah hay, kabhi kam or ziada usee k hath main hay. than how can you put a fix value in advance when Allah did't gives you the fix value of amount. keep your heart and mind clean and wish you help other as you want Allah to help you.
thats a good practice in whole life , specially when you are getting married.

JazakAllah Khair.

 

[babadeena]

If u wish to understand this matter with reference to Islam, then:
a) in Quran there are two kinds of ladies one is called Musnaha (Free and Independent woman)
and other is a woman who does not enjoy this status and is called "slave" or "servant".
b) A Musnaha has been granted every right to negotiate the terms and conditions of
her Nikkah.
c) If a person is unable that means does not have ample resources to marray a free woman,
then he is ordered to contract a marraige with a servant or a lady who is not so economically
strong.
d) The "men" are required to seek the women in honest wedlock with their money:

Thanks.

 

[c4cheema]

"Make Marriage easy and Zina Difficult"

"O ye who believe! Save yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is Men and Stones, over which are (appointed) angels stern (and) severe, who flinch not (from executing) the Commands they receive from God, but do (precisely) what they are commanded. [Holy Quran: Tahrim 66: 6]

Islam makes marriages too easy but we make them too difficult. Prophet Muhammad (SAW) always emphasized us to makes marriages most simple but in today’s world as scholars say that fornication is too easy & marriage is too difficult.

Consequently, piety is preferred over all other considerations in all of life’s transactions. Abu Hurairah reported the Messenger of Allah SAW said:

“A woman is married for four [reasons]: her wealth, her nobility, her beauty, and her piety. Choose the pious one and be successful.”
[Narrated by Al-Bukhari (Sahih Al-Bukhari; (Arabic-English), vol.7, pp.18-9, and no.27] and Muslim (Sahih Muslim, (English Trans.), vol.2, p.749, and no.3457)]

Prophet Muhammad(Peace and Blessings be upon Him) said If there comes to you one with whose religion and attitude you are satisfied, then give your daughter to him in marriage, for if you do not do so, fitnah and mischief will become widespread on earth. [ A hasan hadith narrated by Tirmidhi, 2/274, Abwab al-nikah, 3; and by Ibn Majah, 1/633, Kitab al-nikah, bab al-akfa.]

one of my closest relative is getting married . but there came a dead lock on nikah issues that on the issue of monthly expenses provided to wife. i need some help from you guys .any personal experience or any information source

is "mahwar" (monthly expense) given to wife part of nikah nama??

can a female demand monthly expense to be written in nikah nama like "mahar"

what is status of "monthly expense" given to wife in islam ??

 

[Young_Blood]

kya soch hai yaar,,,,,
ok kuch dair k liay iss condition ko dulha maan lay,,,, to agar Khuda Na khawasta shaadi k 1 month baad, agar dulha job less ho jaey, uss ka business main loss ho jaey, wo disable ho jaey aur bed rest per aa jaaey, uss ke income zero ho jaey to? kya dulhan divorce mangay ge? apne dulhay ko chor de ge? kya behooda sawal hai ya condition hai yaar,,,,
yaad rekhiay ga,, Islam main hai k agar BV apney shohar ke khidmat karey, islami ihkamaat k mutabiq, ussey Jannat ke gawahi de gai hai,,,
Hazrat Yaqoob/Ya/Hazrat Ayoub ke BV ka waqiyaa perh lijiay, k Islam main Wives ke kya misalein hein,,,
Means Shaadi k rishtey ko peso se jora ja raha hai,,, pese nahi to rishta bhe nahi?