It happened all of sudden in a gathering of special official event at Islamabad ....Dr.Tahir ul Qadri was busy in talking with people participating in that gathering and during that suddenly first secretary of Romania had put forwarded her hand for shaking before people so during that time it was hard to not accept her invitation of shaking hands that can go against moral & ethical values ..otherwise where ever Dr.Tahir ul Qadri goes, he never shake hand but gives very respecting regards to ladies and males........... act of harram can never been consdered as halaaal but in certain situations and circumstances its sin is exempted...if Quran allows us to drink a alcohol for saving life then for certain situation and for the sake of moral, ethical, social and showing Islamic openness & regard for guests, especially non-muslims who do not know our values if sometime unconsciously is compelled to do shake hands with women without any bad intention in a public...then matter is different .!!