Almighty Allah bless Shabana, and I wish and pray for her Healthy wealthy life in future. Ameen.
Our Political issues have made our relations with India so controversial, that once as Pakistani, if you heard any thing about Indians, it only make you feel like Hate and Discrimination, My own personal experience with Indians are not that bad, which actually I use to think before I came out from Pakistan. In general every one have reservation about their own interest first, and it is very common. But I have experienced relations between these two arch rivals, and have seen very good working relations, Give and take is the main element, which have helped improving relations among each other.
I always ask this question to myself, if Pakistanis and Indians can work together overseas under Arab nationals or British nationals or US national, why they are fail to maintain great relations as Pakistani national or Indian national, and answer is dirty politics. (this is my personal opinion based on my oversea experience)
Regards.