جماعتیے بریانی کی پلیٹ کا بھرم نہیں رکھتےجماعتیے بدل رہے ہیں
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بدلنا بھی ضروری ہے
آخر کب تک کوئی جماعت کی منافقت کا بھرم رکھ سکتا ہے
I think you are emphasizing on freedom of consent more that what the real problem with the nation is. Providing more freedom more outlets of emotions more mingling with other gender is not something which is at the focal point. I still believe that there is lack of respect to the women in a male dominated society.And that respect can't not be generated but needs to be instil. The proper education, respscting the values the religion itself provides, and be aware of the consequences which will be born . However, the whole nation from the family to the society has been misguided,misled and misinformed. Government does a very little to correct the situation. It has its own problems and its objectives where this issue doesn't take priority.Yes but then it stops at the same spot, that is the family head, more precisely family male head. If that person himself does not know how to deal with women, be at home or at work or in the street, how is he going to teach the values at home?
Opening up will clear lots of mysteries and taboos. As I said in my last post, it may not eliminate the crime all of a sudden but it may help many to define who is right and who is wrong in a certain incident. You are right that security forces are not well equipped with skills to handle such situations, but then again they are also one of our brothers, uncles and sons. They come from the same society with same thinkings/ideas. Do you remember that stupid Umar Sheikh who blamed the victim herself in motorway case. So i would stick to my point that it needs to come from top where the government introduces some reforms which may make it sure that all government schools/institutions are coeducation institutions, make reforms for boys and girls to be friends and go anywhere without bothered by the police etc. Instead the police should arrest or take action on those who disturb the privacy of others, be them couples, be them boys or girls. Lastly, the concept of consent to a relationship should be supported by government where adults are allowed to have relationships of their choice. These can be the starting steps, once these are in place, one can refine them and meanwhile teach society to be more tolerant to all.
Its the admission of failure of the government to provide the security and maintain law and order.where did it says that it was a man exclusive gathering and women were not suppose to go ?Thanks for giving me that importance....??
. By God I havnt started any campaign.,those wr just my views which I tried to share in my broken URDU. N sometimes broken English...
Its not my job to blame people... Nor my style...
What I said...is so simple...
Girl shouldnt have gone to a place without proper security. Where only mn wr expected to b thr...
She shouldnt have put her safety n life in jeopardy... She shouldnt have taken it lightly...
N I m in fvr of punishing the culprits ...
Show me whr I m wrong...
جماعتیے جہاں سے امریکی ڈالروں کی خوشبی آتی ہے بس اسی کے آس پاس دم ہلائے پھرتےجماعتیے بریانی کی پلیٹ کا بھرم نہیں رکھتے
یہ شوباز شریف کا شہر ہےان کنجروں کو سوراخ پر لوہے کا گرم داغ دو۔ پھر نہیں کریں گے۔
۔مگر یہ عام لوگ کیا کرتے رہے۔ یہ کونسا شہر ہے۔ بے غیرت لوگ
hunter maroo in jahil lahorion ko
Hope you also went through the reply regarding "Herd Behavior" ?These women in the Rickshaw are to be blamed. The men are not to be blamed.
It is because these women are roaming around without a Mehram. Islam doesn't allow that.
Don't be surprised to read my above comments. I saw Dr. Farhat Hashmi's following comments yesterday.
see this
عائشہ کیس میں ہمارے معاشرے کا مکرُو چہرہ ہرگز نہیں
Of course, I was in shock. And I was in further shock when another woman from our Forum appreciated Dr Farhat Hashmi's comment of blaming the Girl Aisha at Minar-r-Pakistan for her sexual abuse because she was out without a Mehram.
Dr Farhat Hashmi wrote " عائشہ کیس میں ہمارے معاشرے کا مکرُو چہرہ ہرگز نہیں ہے "
And see what one of our females wrote in reponse.
Lubna Khan wrote "Thanks @ Farhat Hashmi for guiding in this matter "
So which world you guys are living in? If you find a woman or women without a Mahram, You have a full right to abuse that woman or women. Soon you will see some siasat.pk members including women will blame the women in Rickshaw for the above incident.
بے غیرت جہاں جنسی زیادتی ہو رہی تھی اس وقت تیرے جیسے مرد کدھر ہوتے ہیں؟
پہلے بگڑے ہوئے مردوں کی اصلاح کرو پھر سزائیں دینا کھوتے
Yes, I have. It was explained in quite a detail. Thanks. Look forward to your next response.Hope you also went through the reply regarding "Herd Behavior" ?
I am planning to write something on this tomorrow. Shall tag you in that post..... stay tuned ?
Exactly inn ka apna leader jawani meh aik lose character playboy tha. Saari duniya meh yehi harkatein karta phirta tha.disgusting. Same should be done to victim blamers’ families, then we will see how they defend this behaviour. Today I feel ashamed of being a Punjabi.
these appear to be youth wings of PTI, they appear to be encouraged by their leaders misogynistic remarks about women.
someone needs to put a full stop to this new barbaric breed we are seeing now. Such behaviour was never heard of in the past.