Sex Talk for Muslim Women

Sohail Shuja

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
Insipidly hilarious..... you know, this paints the picture of our present day "muslim world" society, with respect to its general norms. If a man commits adultery, it is generally ignored in our societies, but everyone looses their head if a woman stands up and demands equality. To the content and intent of the article, I do agree that it is something to defame Islam and to conclude that it is the problem of the Muslim World.

However, what I am unable to grasp is that they are against child marriage, but promote premarital sex ... I mean in UK, if a 14 year old gives birth to a child, it is celebrated and cherished (
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2020801/Britains-youngest-grandparents-Shem-Davies-granddad-29-Kelly-John-granny-30.html) but if same thing happens in a muslim country (in a wedlock), they can't digest it.

But... as a matter of fact, we need to look into our own backyard as well. I think, giving equality to women in the matters of premarital and extramarital sex is only possible if the liberty given to men in our societies in these matters is taken away. It is not like that if men are doing something wrong, then women should also be given the choice to commit something which is clearly forbidden in the religion. Men should be shunned equally for these crimes in the society. Yet, we can accept a Kaptan with promiscuous past but cannot tolerate a woman to be a popular contestant in our political landscape with more or less the same profile. This shows our bigotry as a society. By the time, our social attitudes and values have really changed and are not Islamic anymore as well. We need to correct that too...
 

Moula

MPA (400+ posts)
some one has to challenge the system and outcome is not always bad. Just remember there was a young Prophet in 600 AD who challenged the pagans of Mecca and created vacuum. It takes time and perseverance has to be there.
there are many other ways to challenge the system and outcome still would be good. does not mean without any parallel system you can kick out anyone from his seat just like that and expect there would be a democracy the very next day and there would be peace. just remember that Prophet never challenged the pagans of Mecca at first, never tried to take over that system , never broke the idols of Kabba, even he was not allowed to perform Hajj by the polytheists of Macca but he never said anything, so never created a vacuum, instead HE moved to Medina and stayed there for a very long time ,was Doing Tablegh There, was gaining knowledge there by Allah. until He had complete parallel system and a complete trained force. Then he went back to Macca and broke those idols in Kabah Shreef in 8th Hijri. then he took years to establish that state and in 10th hijri He Finally was able to perfom Hajj. He took 10 Years after hijra to establish a parallel system in that time he was preparing was training people was Spreading Knowledge. No sir we should not challenge the system at the moment until we have a Parallel system or you have better trained people who would be able to run the country otherwise our Haal would be like Iraq/Syria.:alhamd::biggthumpup:
 
there are many other ways to challenge the system and outcome still would be good. does not mean without any parallel system you can kick out anyone from his seat just like that and expect there would be a democracy the very next day and there would be peace. just remember that Prophet never challenged the pagans of Mecca at first, never tried to take over that system , never broke the idols of Kabba, even he was not allowed to perform Hajj by the polytheists of Macca but he never said anything, so never created a vacuum, instead HE moved to Medina and stayed there for a very long time ,was Doing Tablegh There, was gaining knowledge there by Allah. until He had complete parallel system and a complete trained force. Then he went back to Macca and broke those idols in Kabah Shreef in 8th Hijri. then he took years to establish that state and in 10th hijri He Finally was able to perfom Hajj. He took 10 Years after hijra to establish a parallel system in that time he was preparing was training people was Spreading Knowledge. No sir we should not challenge the system at the moment until we have a Parallel system or you have better trained people who would be able to run the country otherwise our Haal would be like Iraq/Syria.:alhamd::biggthumpup:


may be one day some new system takes place with reforms which will refrain from fatwas of wajibul qatl , may be that system would be more free from mullas .may be that system will bring peace in this world . let us hope beyond hope .
 

Moula

MPA (400+ posts)
may be one day some new system takes place with reforms which will refrain from fatwas of wajibul qatl , may be that system would be more free from mullas .may be that system will bring peace in this world . let us hope beyond hope .
i would rather stick to the pure form of islam. some people are trying hard to make a new form of it or want to reform it inshAllah never going to happen. if Allah is saying someone is wajibul Qatil then it should be. Islam is the perfect religion. i agree islam should be returned to its original shape instead of this shia sunni wahabhi islam of mullahs. nobody tried islam in the modren history why not try it as a system? again i will say pure islam not this mullahs islam.:biggthumpup::alhamd:
 

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