Mr Khurram Aziz replied that the hadith Ibtisam Elahi Zaheer cited was for the time of Prophet Muhammad (SAW), it is not aplicable today. He could argue , that as he has a very busy schedule , so he is unable to read Nimaz and that Nimaz was for the time when people had free time.
The main problem is our life style. Are we following the life style of Prophet Muhammad (SAW).??? Absolutely Not.
Ibtisam Elahi Zaheer was right stating the difference between planing and control. Islam main to ye bhi hai ke agar aap ko taufeeq nahi hai to shadi na ki jaay balkeh roza rakha jaay. or pakistan main koi rozgar na bhi ho to shadi ker di jati hai. olad ki tarbiat pehla concern hai. agar aap tarbiat nahi ker sekte to shaid control bhi kia ja sakta ho. He is also right about the misuse of contraceptives, they are rather being misused by the youth. pehle to pregnancy ka khauf hota tha lakin ab to wo bilkul be-khauf ho ker sub kuch ker sekte hain. It does not mean ke pehle koi burai hoti hi nahi thi. pehle bhi hoti hogi per relatively bohat kam