Taha whom are you talking to. They want a secular state. Secular means no belief in any religion. You will never be able to convince them. It is easier to convince other religion people to your point, put your energy to that. They just want to eliminate everything which Muslims were proud, even 40~50 years ago. But now they feel insulted if they have to talk about it or even if they see others following it. Sharah maen issay makrooh kehtay hain. It is better to ridicule the bad deed than ridiculing Islam. You won't find a person out of them who would say even after Lal Masjid Operation that Aunty Shamim should be punished if it was proven and there were lots of witnesses against her. They just need the list of the persons who were dead as if they could do something to lessen the miseries. Whether you write to them or sing to a deaf, it is the same.