Behavior with Wives Latest Lesson By Moulana Tariq Jameel

Oldwish

Senator (1k+ posts)
Molana Sahib should have more balanced approach to this subject. Almost all of his lectures he puts the women under victim card but the reality is women can be as abusive as men. The only difference is in the abusive tactics. People living in the West know this first hand where 75 % divorces are initiated by women after having kids. Cause the kids now a days are just insurance policy. The guy pays child support and alimony for the rest of his life without having the permission to see his children.
 
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Amal

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
Molana Sahib should have more balanced approach to this subject. Almost all of his lectures he puts the women under victim card but the reality is women can be as abusive as men. The only difference is in the abusive tactics. People living in the West know this first hand where 75 % divorces are initiated by women after having kids. Cause the kids now a days are just insurance policy. The guy pays child support and alimony for the rest of his life without having the permission to see his children.

Pakistani mashry main zeyada ter larki ki zindagi ko mushkil banaya jata hai , kun nahi hum insaf , sachai or azzat ky sath zindagion ko aasan banaty , humary mashrey main " might is right " kun hai , Allah ky bataiy hoiy rasty per kun nahi chel ker zindagiun ko khobsorat banaty hum loog !
yehi issues mulana sahab suljhana chahty hain or is ki ashad zaroorat hai humary mashry ko !

aap ney jin matters ka ziker keya hai yeh bhee takleef dey mamlat han , achy or bury halat sey wasta perh sakta hai zindagi main , jahan nebha na ho saky wahan alladgi hi main sakoon hai , divorce ky bad court father ko pora right deti hai kids ky sath time guzarny ka , father bachy ky adult huny tuk us ki care kerky us ky sath time spent ker ky apni zimadari puri kerain gey tu un ko khoshi ho gi , zameer mutmain ho ga or aakhrat main surkhro hongey !
 

Oldwish

Senator (1k+ posts)
Pakistani mashry main zeyada ter larki ki zindagi ko mushkil banaya jata hai , kun nahi hum insaf , sachai or azzat ky sath zindagion ko aasan banaty , humary mashrey main " might is right " kun hai , Allah ky bataiy hoiy rasty per kun nahi chel ker zindagiun ko khobsorat banaty hum loog !
yehi issues mulana sahab suljhana chahty hain or is ki ashad zaroorat hai humary mashry ko !

aap ney jin matters ka ziker keya hai yeh bhee takleef dey mamlat han , achy or bury halat sey wasta perh sakta hai zindagi main , jahan nebha na ho saky wahan alladgi hi main sakoon hai , divorce ky bad court father ko pora right deti hai kids ky sath time guzarny ka , father bachy ky adult huny tuk us ki care kerky us ky sath time spent ker ky apni zimadari puri kerain gey tu un ko khoshi ho gi , zameer mutmain ho ga or aakhrat main surkhro hongey !
Thanks for your kind words. Might is not just right in Pakistan but might is right every where in the world.
It's not a black and white issue. It's a gender issues. In Pakistan even to get a second wife you have to divorce the first one cause she can drag you to jail. The laws are not practical at all.
Narcissim is growing rapidly. That's one of the biggest cause of breakdown of a family. And schools are number cause of that problem. School does not train people for real life issues but it gives you some info about abstrack world and a fantasy life. One narc women in the family will brake the entire family. And a narc women can And will only used nice loving people to do her dirty work.
where I differ with Molana Sahib is he presents women as poor victim and male and male sasural as cruel animals. In one of his lecture he said sasural 100% zalim. This is wrong Very wrong. This is very unjust and justice should be upheld no matter what. Mitha mitha Islam sab ko acha lagta hy. But Deen practical Islam ko kehty Hain selected Islam ko Nahi.
 

Amal

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
Thanks for your kind words. Might is not just right in Pakistan but might is right every where in the world.
It's not a black and white issue. It's a gender issues. In Pakistan even to get a second wife you have to divorce the first one cause she can drag you to jail. The laws are not practical at all.
Narcissim is growing rapidly. That's one of the biggest cause of breakdown of a family. And schools are number cause of that problem. School does not train people for real life issues but it gives you some info about abstrack world and a fantasy life. One narc women in the family will brake the entire family. And a narc women can And will only used nice loving people to do her dirty work.
where I differ with Molana Sahib is he presents women as poor victim and male and male sasural as cruel animals. In one of his lecture he said sasural 100% zalim. This is wrong Very wrong. This is very unjust and justice should be upheld no matter what. Mitha mitha Islam sab ko acha lagta hy. But Deen practical Islam ko kehty Hain selected Islam ko Nahi.


molana sahab some time joshe khtabet main 100% type words use ker jaty han , lakin in ky khatabat reality per base kerty han !
aap ka point bilkul daroost hai , dono terhan ky halat paiy jaty han !
humary mashry sey Allah swt ka khoof bilkul hi napaid ho gaya hai , loog insaf , sachai , haqooq o faraiz ko koi ahmiyet nahi dety , Nabi saw ki zindagi humary liye namona hai or is ki pervi main dunia ka sakoon or aakhrat main rahat ho gi nahi tu dono jagha saza bhogatni ho gi !
 
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