Are we a sexually frustrated nation?

Yes ............ 100%

No bars , no clubs , no drinks, no grounds to play for kids

We only have internet ......No1 is porn search in the world in Straight and Gay categories as well as fetish (we have become sexually insane)

People are desperate and u see abuses and fights on small issues , our Mantra is LATKA DO on small issues

Society has become materialistic , Average marriage age is also increasing almost 30 for women and above 30 for Men
 

cheetah

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
Whether we are frustrated or not is difficult to answer but one thing is sure suffering from inferiority complex. I am not defending our as a nation attitude but this is universal truth all over the world tabloids and media is carving for such sensational news having sexuality touch. Look how Clinton Monica affair was highlighted, french president issue, lady Diana's issue and so many other cases. Yes we should adhere to the Islamic values of privacy which is separate issue but do not blame the nation as an solitary example of the world.
 
check the rape cases. its increasing day by day

Do u really think rape cases are reported in Pakistan?

99% rape cases are not reported because of a Girl and family future ... Who will marry a raped girl in Pakistan even to her sisters ? Such a family has no future in Pakistani society
 

Mughal1

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
baat sirf sexual starvation ki nahin hai balkeh insaan to chalta hi fear, hunger aur thirst drives per hai, yani yaheeh us ko motivate karne waali cheezen bunyaadi tor par. albata masla yeh hai insaan mil jul kar aisi zaroorten poori kaise karen. yahee woh raatsa hai jo khudaa ne insaanu ko bataaya hai. log to yahee samajhte hen bas aik doosre se zabardasti apni apni zaroorten manwaa len ge magar aisa naamumkin hai. insaan aik doosre se jang karte karte uktaa jayen ge magar woh apni apni zaroorten aik doosre se zabardasti manwaane main kaamyaab nahin ho saken ge jaise aaj tak nahin ho sake. log jab tak apni apni jaaiz zarooriyaat ko khud nahin samajhte aur aik doosre to aqlo fikar se samjhaate nahin woh aik doosre ki zarooryaat ka ehsaas hi nahin kar sakte issi liye un ko poora karne main khud ko zimmadaar bhi nahin samajh sakte issi liye un ki zaroorten ruki rahen gi yaa phir khoon kharaaba jaari rahe ga jab tak log aqal nahin seekh jaate yaa sikhaaye jaate aik doosre ke zariye. issi ko tang nazri yaa narrow mindedness kehte hen aur issi liye wussate nazar peda karne ki shadeed zaroorat hai taa keh log poori tasweer dekh saken.
 

Future4Unity

MPA (400+ posts)
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free_thinker

Councller (250+ posts)
Very Important Topic

Sex/reproduction is one of basic needs of human (and other life forms too). The current combination of half Islamic and half Western culture is nothing but complete disaster for young generation and here is why:

1) You are constantly bombard with sexual images in all form of media.
2) In Islam you can only have sex with your wives or your slaves.
3) Divorce is severely looked down upon and if you ended up in an arrange marriage, where you are not sexually attracted to your partner, you are doomed. This is the Indian effect as divorcing and moving on is normal in both Islamic and Western culture.

Now, there is no more slavery and you can most probably only have one wife, which is fine. The problem is that you are only supposed to get married, once you have accomplished certain things in your life (education, job, some financial stability etc). This is mostly Western thing, where people live together and work together to reach the point where they have saved enough to get married. Meanwhile they have plenty of sex with their partners, so sexual frustration never builds up in most cases there.

So on one hand half of the the religious rule is followed (to not have partners before marriage) and on other hand, half of western rule is followed (to only get married after getting financial stability). The result of this it that your golden age to enjoy sex (from 16-30) is wasted and the best you do is watch porn and jerk a lot.

The funny thing is nobody even considers this an issue and wants to openly talk about it.

Right now Pakistani Society is:

Dhobi ka ****, na ghar ka, na ghaat ka.
 

khaaki

Senator (1k+ posts)
This guy himself is pervert. In his YouTube channel he talks about stuff that we as a nationa of distinct religion and then culture is an insult or anamoly.
 

Pey4Pakistan

MPA (400+ posts)

اس قوم کو ان جیسے لوگوں نے فرسٹریشن کے سوا دیا ہی کیا ہے؟
سارا دن ٹی وی پر یہ کہہ کہہ کر کہ پاکستان میں یہ برا ہے یہ نہیں ہے ور نہیں ہے، مگر کسی نے اس قوم کو کبھی یہ نہیں بتایا کہ تم میں کچھ کرنے کی صلاحیت بھی ہے۔
 

desicad

Chief Minister (5k+ posts)
Yes ............ 100%

No bars , no clubs , no drinks, no grounds to play for kids

We only have internet ......No1 is porn search in the world in Straight and Gay categories as well as fetish (we have become sexually insane)

People are desperate and u see abuses and fights on small issues , our Mantra is LATKA DO on small issues

Society has become materialistic , Average marriage age is also increasing almost 30 for women and above 30 for Men
Average marriage age though increasing, but 30 particularly for women seems far-streched.
 

Humi

Prime Minister (20k+ posts)
Average marriage age though increasing, but 30 particularly for women seems far-streched.

I read an article a while ago...In canada, average age of a woman who gets married for the first time is about 31...Back home, it is definitely not 31..
 

itsnotme90

Minister (2k+ posts)
totally agree

Very Important Topic

Sex/reproduction is one of basic needs of human (and other life forms too). The current combination of half Islamic and half Western culture is nothing but complete disaster for young generation and here is why:

1) You are constantly bombard with sexual images in all form of media.
2) In Islam you can only have sex with your wives or your slaves.
3) Divorce is severely looked down upon and if you ended up in an arrange marriage, where you are not sexually attracted to your partner, you are doomed. This is the Indian effect as divorcing and moving on is normal in both Islamic and Western culture.

Now, there is no more slavery and you can most probably only have one wife, which is fine. The problem is that you are only supposed to get married, once you have accomplished certain things in your life (education, job, some financial stability etc). This is mostly Western thing, where people live together and work together to reach the point where they have saved enough to get married. Meanwhile they have plenty of sex with their partners, so sexual frustration never builds up in most cases there.

So on one hand half of the the religious rule is followed (to not have partners before marriage) and on other hand, half of western rule is followed (to only get married after getting financial stability). The result of this it that your golden age to enjoy sex (from 16-30) is wasted and the best you do is watch porn and jerk a lot.

The funny thing is nobody even considers this an issue and wants to openly talk about it.

Right now Pakistani Society is:

Dhobi ka ****, na ghar ka, na ghaat ka.
 

Saeed4Truth

Minister (2k+ posts)
no one is forcing anyone to watch the media...you can't blame it...we have free will..
no its not this way...
koi apnay kapre utar k bazar main nikal aye aur kahay k u have free will dont watch me to ye daleel ghalt hai uski
agar will pe kaam chal skta to allah phir sazaen mukhtas na krta
i hope u understand
 

Future4Unity

MPA (400+ posts)
This guy himself is pervert. In his YouTube channel he talks about stuff that we as a nationa of distinct religion and then culture is an insult or anamoly.


I am not a pervert than (Why) Hindu Indians NOT come up the idea? Are they God gift from heaven??
What about all those Americans transgenders numbering in thousands? They are ALL perverts?
What about a Hindu when he rapes a young girl and what about him? He isn't a pervert or breaking the law?

I never said anything about our culture or religious group, you simply jeolous of a Pakistani owning a YouTube channel before an Indian, and first to own before an Indian..for a technical idea before anyone else.. Eh?
Please don't quote or assume anything in my video's or distort facts I speak good English!