A Pakistani Model Was Brutally Beaten By Her Alleged Boyfriend

[Kashif Rafiq]

Domestic violence and abuse can happen to anyone belonging to any gender, age, and social standing. Abuse takes various forms including psychological, physical, emotional and sexual. It can happen to anyone and at any stage of their lives. In whatever situation, abuse of any kind is never justified, is false, and should be stopped there and then.

Abuse is motivated by one goal only and that is total control over their victim to the point that they dictate what the person can and cannot do with their own lives. It always begins slowly in the form of threats and escalates to physical violence; sometimes to the point that it takes the life of the person.

In Pakistan, women experience such mistreatment by the men quite often that is swept under the rug and never talked about. Since it’s a male-dominant patriarchal system in this country that leave women under their rule and command. The misogynist and sexist mindset leaves them with little to no respect for women. But somehow these same hypocrite men would bring Islam in places that benefit them. They would conveniently skip the parts where not just Allah SWT but Prophet Muhammad S.A.W himself advised the men to treat women with equality, respect, and kindness.

Farha Nizam released a video where she states the horrific ordeal she experienced and her face can be seen badly bruised. This aspiring model starts off with telling everyone the status of a woman in our country that is close to nothing in the eyes of men since she is vulnerable and fragile. She goes on to explain the incident about how she was with her friends and booked a Careem to home when he tracks her down at gunpoint. He gets her off the cab against her will, beats her repeatedly all the way to his home and the violence escalates in the confines of his room. Sadly, his sisters and mother were equally involved in the entire scenario considering they didn’t even stop him.

‘He Threatened Me To Stay Hush And Sooner Or Later, He Will Kill Me’, Says Farha Nizam
Acceding to Farha’s statements, he was controlling, obsessive and he would ruin her reputation at work so she stops working. A perfect example of how the abuser gains control over their entire life, making them completely dependent on them. He has given her multiple death threats and she, in her video, asked everyone to give her security from this monster.

Aamir Liaquat Interviewed Her And She Was Hesitant To Appear On TV

Watched The Entire Interview Here:

 

[raaja.bcn]

Jab boy friend wala culture aam hoga to phir uss k effects to Aisay hi hongay

 

[Tyrion Lannister]

Jab boy friend wala culture aam hoga to phir uss k effects to Aisay hi hongay

boyfriend culture is bad but your comment is dodging the bullet, there is a big segment of men especially in our villages that do not feel hesitant to hit their women, this needs to change. I saw it many times, thapar to shay e koi nai

 

[Humi]

Jab boy friend wala culture aam hoga to phir uss k effects to Aisay hi hongay

men literally beat up hundreds of thousands of women they are related to (wives, sisters, daughters etc) across the world on a daily basis but sure it is the boyfriend culture that endangers women and not toxic masculinity which has never needed an excuse to commit violence against women.

 

[bhaibarood]

Asey admiyon ko beech sarak pe leta ke marna chaheye!
PS: we need to hear the otherside.
Remember the wakar zaka 15 yrs old rape case.
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[khipk]

Jab boy friend wala culture aam hoga to phir uss k effects to Aisay hi hongay

bhai yeh society ka masalla hay, shohar bhi is hee tarah martay hain hain, to kia Shadi ka system responsible hoa ?

 

[khipk]

men literally beat up hundreds of thousands of women they are related to (wives, sisters, daughters etc) across the world on a daily basis but sure it is the boyfriend culture that endangers women and not toxic masculinity which has never needed an excuse to commit violence against women.

yeah but accross the world it is punished, but in our part (South Asia and specifically Pakistan) it goes unpunished and is considered norm in large part of the society.

 

[Khan125]

Jo boy frind ore grl friend apas me zina krtey rahey vo theek hey us pe koi baat nhi krni..... bs baat is tashadud pe krni hey.....

 

[atensari]

کھانا گرم کرنے سے آزادی دلوانے کے باجود عورت کو مردانہ تشدد سے تحفظ نا ملے تو سمجھ آ جانی چاہے کے اس مسئلے کا حل عورت کی آزادی نہیں مرد کا رویہ ہے​

 

[pkpatriot]

Women runs our families,
Women most decisions in family matters,
Women decide where to live,
What to eat,
Where to go.

But outside family system women are vulnerable in every society every country.

 

[Dantheman]

Jab boy friend wala culture aam hoga to phir uss k effects to Aisay hi hongay

Boy friend culture or husband culture, physical violence is not justifiable in any civil society.
Please start thinking like a civilized person first.

 

[bhaibarood]

Jab boy friend wala culture aam hoga to phir uss k effects to Aisay hi hongay

Raja ji kia married life main aurat violence ka shikaar hoti? 99% violence married life main hota hai.

 

[Beef.Bhaijan]

what if the man beating the woman is inspired by the words of a mother or sister against his wife ?..Is masculinity to be blamed for that too ?

How do you define toxic feminism or feminist jealousy against each other ?

men literally beat up hundreds of thousands of women they are related to (wives, sisters, daughters etc) across the world on a daily basis but sure it is the boyfriend culture that endangers women and not toxic masculinity which has never needed an excuse to commit violence against women.

 

[Beef.Bhaijan]

NO...The REAL question is that she claims to have a BOY FRIEND not a husband. So if she felt threatened what was she doing around him ?

Not to say that what that individual did is excuseable in any way. But why was she hanging around a person who is abusive ?

bhai yeh society ka masalla hay, shohar bhi is hee tarah martay hain hain, to kia Shadi ka system responsible hoa ?

 

[Beef.Bhaijan]

married life mein jub aurat kay ghar walay mil ker husband ka jeena haram kertay hain to yeh abuse kis khatay mein ata hai ??

wahan TOXIC Masculinity kidher chali jati hai ??

Raja ji kia married life main aurat violence ka shikaar hoti? 99% violence married life main hota hai.

 

[Humi]

what if the man beating the woman is inspired by the words of a mother or sister against his wife ?..Is masculinity to be blamed for that too ?

How do you define toxic feminism or feminist jealousy against each other ?

Lolz, this is the sexist version of "but what about black on black crime" used by White Supremacists as an excuse when you point out structural oppression of people of color which is done to benefit the White people at expense of minorities.

FYI, abusers are liars when they claim that their actions were manipulated. In the end, no one is responsible for your actions but yourself. God gave you a brain to use and decide your actions. The rest is just excuses for your own character.

 

[1234567]

men literally beat up hundreds of thousands of women they are related to (wives, sisters, daughters etc) across the world on a daily basis but sure it is the boyfriend culture that endangers women and not toxic masculinity which has never needed an excuse to commit violence against women.

MY dear what about the mothers who beat their sons on daily basis for not doing their homework. IN OTHER WORDS A WOMAN BEATS A MAN (am I correct).

 

[Humi]

married life mein jub aurat kay ghar walay mil ker husband ka jeena haram kertay hain to yeh abuse kis khatay mein ata hai ??

wahan TOXIC Masculinity kidher chali jati hai ??

simply divorce and move on to better things instead of making excuses to justify Male violence.

 

[Humi]

MY dear what about the mothers who beat their sons on daily basis for not doing their homework. IN OTHER WORDS A WOMAN BEATS A MAN (am I correct).

A woman also beats up her female children for not doing homework. That is bad parenting not structural gender violence.

 

[1234567]

A woman also beats up her female children for not doing homework. That is bad parenting not structural gender violence.

You mean to say that if woman beats a child it is parenting?